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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 205238" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>Hi All,</p><p>just got a call from my son, C. I have been sort of dreading hearing from him because I figured it wouldn't be pretty. If you remember, difficult child had stolen $100.00 dollars from him and of course denied it when confronted. They were supposed to be getting a place together in November--they've been subleasing from a friend of difficult child's. He was willing to give her one more chance.</p><p></p><p>Well, he found out that boyfriend had forged his name on some personal checks--C went to withdraw money from his checking account and there was only $4.00 left in it. He and the bank teller went through his history and discovered 3 checks made out to the boyfriend that C did not write.</p><p></p><p>Then, he found out through talking with R, the girl that they were subleasing from, that no money has been been on the rent for the apt. C was giving his part of the rent to the boyfriend in cash and boyfriend didn't use it to pay rent (no surprise to me, if I had known I would have warned C not to do this).</p><p></p><p>Also, boyfriend was menacing towards C--difficult child asked C for $200.00 and he refused and boyfriend got up in his face and made a fist like he was going to hit him. He told him he had better give her the money after "all she'd done for him." C got out of there and he told difficult child she had better get rid of boyfriend--told her everything boyfriend was doing. She cried and said of course she would have nothing more to to do with boyfriend. C went to stay with R who was nice enough to let him stay at her apt. He thought difficult child had broken it off with boyfriend but they are still together. difficult child says she is "confused" and that he loves her.</p><p></p><p>None of this is a surprise to me but I feel very bad for C. He is furious with boyfriend and says boyfriend has difficult child brainwashed. In any case, he wants nothing to do with either of them. He is considering having boyfriend arrested for the fraudulent checks but he is worried about retribution. I can understand that--boyfriend gets a crazed look in his eyes which I have seen myself and it is scary. Plus he is a big guy.</p><p></p><p>I talked with R, the friend, and she asked me if I would take the baby if difficult child isn't taking care of him properly. I had to say "no" but told her to call CPS anonymously if she sees any signs of that. I told her I didn't think difficult child would abuse the baby but I could see her neglecting it.</p><p></p><p>Okay, gotta run for now--I'll let you know more as I know it. Oh, I'm going to withdraw the rest of difficult child's college money and send it to C to help offset all his losses due to her stealing from him.</p><p></p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 205238, member: 3208"] Hi All, just got a call from my son, C. I have been sort of dreading hearing from him because I figured it wouldn't be pretty. If you remember, difficult child had stolen $100.00 dollars from him and of course denied it when confronted. They were supposed to be getting a place together in November--they've been subleasing from a friend of difficult child's. He was willing to give her one more chance. Well, he found out that boyfriend had forged his name on some personal checks--C went to withdraw money from his checking account and there was only $4.00 left in it. He and the bank teller went through his history and discovered 3 checks made out to the boyfriend that C did not write. Then, he found out through talking with R, the girl that they were subleasing from, that no money has been been on the rent for the apt. C was giving his part of the rent to the boyfriend in cash and boyfriend didn't use it to pay rent (no surprise to me, if I had known I would have warned C not to do this). Also, boyfriend was menacing towards C--difficult child asked C for $200.00 and he refused and boyfriend got up in his face and made a fist like he was going to hit him. He told him he had better give her the money after "all she'd done for him." C got out of there and he told difficult child she had better get rid of boyfriend--told her everything boyfriend was doing. She cried and said of course she would have nothing more to to do with boyfriend. C went to stay with R who was nice enough to let him stay at her apt. He thought difficult child had broken it off with boyfriend but they are still together. difficult child says she is "confused" and that he loves her. None of this is a surprise to me but I feel very bad for C. He is furious with boyfriend and says boyfriend has difficult child brainwashed. In any case, he wants nothing to do with either of them. He is considering having boyfriend arrested for the fraudulent checks but he is worried about retribution. I can understand that--boyfriend gets a crazed look in his eyes which I have seen myself and it is scary. Plus he is a big guy. I talked with R, the friend, and she asked me if I would take the baby if difficult child isn't taking care of him properly. I had to say "no" but told her to call CPS anonymously if she sees any signs of that. I told her I didn't think difficult child would abuse the baby but I could see her neglecting it. Okay, gotta run for now--I'll let you know more as I know it. Oh, I'm going to withdraw the rest of difficult child's college money and send it to C to help offset all his losses due to her stealing from him. Jane [/QUOTE]
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