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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 470682" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>This was not an easy decision, she had a lot of conflict in the fact that she is adopted. But it was a mature decision that noone coerced her into and I am proud that she is looking at the long term and not expecting to fill holes in her heart with a baby.</p><p></p><p>Malika I respect your personal beliefs and opinions but I don't think you have any idea what our situation is and what circumstances this baby would be born into. If you think abortion leaves a big impact on a woman I have news for you, adoption has already left the biggest impact on her that could ever be, and we have been dealing with those effects for many years now. And if you think her prognosis is not good with this decision you don't know our story because her prognosis has not been good for a very long time due to the circumstances of her birth. We are so thankful that we have been able to keep her as safe as we have this long. By all rights she should be in jail right now and have no chance at a life at all. I hope you never have to watch your child go down a path that leads to absolute destruction of body and mind. Like I said in my first post, this is a sensitive subject and one that I do not want to cause dissention here, but those of us living with this situation understand we are dealing with some of lifes toughest problems and they don't go away by wishing them away. When you have gone through the anquish we have these past twenty years, then we can sit down and talk about morality.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 470682, member: 59"] This was not an easy decision, she had a lot of conflict in the fact that she is adopted. But it was a mature decision that noone coerced her into and I am proud that she is looking at the long term and not expecting to fill holes in her heart with a baby. Malika I respect your personal beliefs and opinions but I don't think you have any idea what our situation is and what circumstances this baby would be born into. If you think abortion leaves a big impact on a woman I have news for you, adoption has already left the biggest impact on her that could ever be, and we have been dealing with those effects for many years now. And if you think her prognosis is not good with this decision you don't know our story because her prognosis has not been good for a very long time due to the circumstances of her birth. We are so thankful that we have been able to keep her as safe as we have this long. By all rights she should be in jail right now and have no chance at a life at all. I hope you never have to watch your child go down a path that leads to absolute destruction of body and mind. Like I said in my first post, this is a sensitive subject and one that I do not want to cause dissention here, but those of us living with this situation understand we are dealing with some of lifes toughest problems and they don't go away by wishing them away. When you have gone through the anquish we have these past twenty years, then we can sit down and talk about morality. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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