She was at my sister in law's in NY for a few days, along with easy child 2. It's been a relaxing few days with easy child 1 and my 7 y.o. nephew. As much as I can't wait to see my girls, I'm dreading the first meltdown from difficult child, which most definitely will occur in the car on the way home. I know she saves her "best" worst behavior for me because she feels the safest around me, but why oh why can't I have just one day with her without any tantrums?