Well, difficult child mom calls to say that the 17yo cant go to the activity this afternoon with his dad. She said he is being punished by having that activity taken away for the rest of the season because he got in a fight with his difficult child 20yo drug addict brother and is mad at her for letting said drug addict live in their house. Not sure what the fight was about or who escalated. Dad was mad at her taking away their activity and said she should punish him by taking away something else like video games or cable tv. She says its HIS fault for kicking difficult child out and putting it upon her to take care of him so he should share the punishment! Dad said she doesn't have to care for a 20yo man who is about to become a father, he should be supporting himself and the baby, and she should kick him out if he is making trouble for her and the 17yo. She hangs up on him as usual. He is now on his way over there after talking to 17yo. He wants him to come over here for a while, but mom was in the background saying he wasn't going anywhere, so I don't know whats gonna happen when he gets there. I asked him to be calm and rational and she can be the screaming lunatic and if she calls the cops, he just needs to explain his concern for the minor child living with his out-of-control drug addict adult brother. The boy is 17 1/2 so I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.