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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 252794" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I'm gonna play devil's advocate here, so to speak.</p><p> </p><p>I dunno if a shop lifting charge is all that serious enough for any cop where you are to give a darn about. Hard to tell as they have more serious warrents they rarely pay attention to.</p><p> </p><p>K had a charge of check fraud put against her from one of those payday loan places when she went to MO. Well, actually several. They have never pursued her where she is, and believe me when they called I made sure to tell them where she was. I know she's not lyng because I checked court records. I think after a while they gave up and dropped the charge. It's now probably hovering in limbo via bad credit companies.</p><p> </p><p>Not saying that will happen with the shop lifting. Just saying most cops aren't going to see it as a big deal.......unless the amt was sky high maybe, compared to what they usually see. Which is why I'm wondering why she is making this such a huge deal. Shoplifting is not going to get her hauled back to Ms. Cost alone would nix it.</p><p> </p><p>That said, if you need to feed her and give her that chance, make d*mn sure those 3 friends <strong>do not</strong> enter your house. Period. You offered to help her, not her friends. Since she couldn't stick to the plan, don't trust her as far as you can spit. If you do make contact keep your eyes and ears open......You know she is manipulative, be on guard against it.</p><p> </p><p>I know you want to help her. I know this is going to be the hardest thing you've ever done no matter which way you jump. You're in a no win situation. Think before you act about all pros and cons.</p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry. I was afraid she might do this.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>Saying a prayer and hoping somehow this works out for the good.</p><p> </p><p>((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 252794, member: 84"] I'm gonna play devil's advocate here, so to speak. I dunno if a shop lifting charge is all that serious enough for any cop where you are to give a darn about. Hard to tell as they have more serious warrents they rarely pay attention to. K had a charge of check fraud put against her from one of those payday loan places when she went to MO. Well, actually several. They have never pursued her where she is, and believe me when they called I made sure to tell them where she was. I know she's not lyng because I checked court records. I think after a while they gave up and dropped the charge. It's now probably hovering in limbo via bad credit companies. Not saying that will happen with the shop lifting. Just saying most cops aren't going to see it as a big deal.......unless the amt was sky high maybe, compared to what they usually see. Which is why I'm wondering why she is making this such a huge deal. Shoplifting is not going to get her hauled back to Ms. Cost alone would nix it. That said, if you need to feed her and give her that chance, make d*mn sure those 3 friends [B]do not[/B] enter your house. Period. You offered to help her, not her friends. Since she couldn't stick to the plan, don't trust her as far as you can spit. If you do make contact keep your eyes and ears open......You know she is manipulative, be on guard against it. I know you want to help her. I know this is going to be the hardest thing you've ever done no matter which way you jump. You're in a no win situation. Think before you act about all pros and cons. I'm so sorry. I was afraid she might do this.:frowny: Saying a prayer and hoping somehow this works out for the good. ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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