I got this second hand from wife so some of the details are unclear... difficult child called wife and told her that she was locked out and the man she'd been staying with was inside going crazy. She said she had to get away from there. wife told her the only place she would give her a ride to was the hospital for detox. difficult child said OK, shed go to the hospital. So wife went and picked her up (easy child 1 stayed home with easy child son 2). She had a laundry basket with her clothes and possessions. Once in the car, she and wife fought about her getting into rehab after detox. She kept repeating that she wouldn't go to an "institution", which apparently means "any kind of psychiatric facility, treatment center, rehab, sober house, or program". difficult child called my parents and asked them to come meet her and wife, apparently wanting to negotiate some kind of post-detox arrangement with them rather than wife. When they got to the ER, difficult child wouldn't wait for her grandparents but ran inside. When they arrived difficult child was in the back in triage. They sent word in to her by the nurse that they were there, but the nurse came back and told them difficult child would not see anybody. wife caught a glimpse of her texting somebody on her phone, presumably to come and get her. So wife and my parents left her there at the hospital and went home. The standing offer is that she can have a ride if it's to go get help, but even that may be too much if she is not serious.