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difficult child getting discharged tomorrow morning..
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 237375" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>This sounds so similar to what we are going thru- emotionally and with the stress of it all. People really don't get it when it's this kind of problem a kid and family are dealing with- especially at school. I would suggest looking into county assistance now. I waited longer than I should have and have been frantic trying to rush the process and find a "Plan B" in the mean time. It's hard to do that though, when we are living from one crisis to the next. Without supports, there is more anxiety for us and we end up digging ourselves in deeper instead of working our way out. Then, tdocs start loooking at you like "oh, this is what caused the problem"- this didn't cause the problem- this is the way we've had to deal the problem as a matter of survival.</p><p></p><p>School is a good example of that- they wouldn't really do anything to help "ease the pain" for difficult child when he'd try going back to school, therefore, he went less and less. He was discharged this past Tues and I couldn't get him to even consider school for the rest of the week. All he can think about is how much work accumulated on top of what he already had. They need to do something to help him ease back in- like start with an afternoon at school talking about how we CAN work through this and make it a doable situation instead of an overwhelming situation.</p><p></p><p>I feel your stress- I understand, really. Let me know if I can offer any pointers on how to look into getting help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 237375, member: 3699"] This sounds so similar to what we are going thru- emotionally and with the stress of it all. People really don't get it when it's this kind of problem a kid and family are dealing with- especially at school. I would suggest looking into county assistance now. I waited longer than I should have and have been frantic trying to rush the process and find a "Plan B" in the mean time. It's hard to do that though, when we are living from one crisis to the next. Without supports, there is more anxiety for us and we end up digging ourselves in deeper instead of working our way out. Then, tdocs start loooking at you like "oh, this is what caused the problem"- this didn't cause the problem- this is the way we've had to deal the problem as a matter of survival. School is a good example of that- they wouldn't really do anything to help "ease the pain" for difficult child when he'd try going back to school, therefore, he went less and less. He was discharged this past Tues and I couldn't get him to even consider school for the rest of the week. All he can think about is how much work accumulated on top of what he already had. They need to do something to help him ease back in- like start with an afternoon at school talking about how we CAN work through this and make it a doable situation instead of an overwhelming situation. I feel your stress- I understand, really. Let me know if I can offer any pointers on how to look into getting help. [/QUOTE]
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