difficult child 2's former babysitter bought him a present for Christmas. The only time we've been together with her since Christmas (which was Saturday), there were other children around that she didn't get a gift for, so we held off on exchanging gifts, but she told difficult child quietly before we left that she'd gotten him a gift. difficult child is OBSESSING over this gift. He cries at least 4 times a day over this gift, and brings it up much more than that. (and his docs say they don't see Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) signs here...sheesh - anyway, I digress...) Would it be just plain rude of me to call up babysitter and tell her what's happening and get this gift exchange over with? She knows difficult child well, she kept him for 3 years.