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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 221640" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">H still feels the need to try and control and manipulate her. In doing so, all he's really doing is allowing her to manipulate him & me. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">I suppose because I've been the primary caretaker, worrier, and person she most disturbs, it's easier for me to let go? I don't know if I'm completely detached. I left her a note that read in caps:</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">"difficult child - GO GET A JOB TODAY"</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">So much for detaching. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">H is angry as all get out, but he hasn't said a word to difficult child. I just know that all it's going to take is one stupid comment from her and H will go off. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">easy child is recuperating from having all four of her insanely placed wisdom teeth removed (yesterday) and is in horrible pain. The ice packs, advil, vicodin and an antibiotic haven't really had much of an impact yet. She looks like a squirrel harvesting her winter nuts and her eyes are glazed over in pain. Tonight would not be a good night for H to go ballistic on difficult child. I have told him that I really don't think we need to use words anymore -only actions at this point. He agrees, yet I do understand his need to holler at her. I have no control over him or this at all and I'm fine with it, really. Ask me later though!!</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 221640, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]H still feels the need to try and control and manipulate her. In doing so, all he's really doing is allowing her to manipulate him & me. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]I suppose because I've been the primary caretaker, worrier, and person she most disturbs, it's easier for me to let go? I don't know if I'm completely detached. I left her a note that read in caps:[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]"difficult child - GO GET A JOB TODAY"[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]So much for detaching. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]H is angry as all get out, but he hasn't said a word to difficult child. I just know that all it's going to take is one stupid comment from her and H will go off. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]easy child is recuperating from having all four of her insanely placed wisdom teeth removed (yesterday) and is in horrible pain. The ice packs, advil, vicodin and an antibiotic haven't really had much of an impact yet. She looks like a squirrel harvesting her winter nuts and her eyes are glazed over in pain. Tonight would not be a good night for H to go ballistic on difficult child. I have told him that I really don't think we need to use words anymore -only actions at this point. He agrees, yet I do understand his need to holler at her. I have no control over him or this at all and I'm fine with it, really. Ask me later though!![/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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