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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 179022" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Thanks klmno,</p><p></p><p>I think my parents accept us for who we are..........but I think their presence seems to trigger such a primitive, hurt child syndrome in difficult child, that I am unsure how to proceed. It has been 5 months since he has seen them, since H.'s memorial, and you would think he could tolerate it. </p><p>But then I think.............. why should I make him tolerate a family member that has violated all of his boundaries in the past? Out of my guilt? Out of obligation? Because he was misbehaving at the time and everyone was doing their best? </p><p>Or is it that this is just not that big of a deal, and I just need to make difficult child tough it out. </p><p>That is where I am lost.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 179022, member: 3301"] Thanks klmno, I think my parents accept us for who we are..........but I think their presence seems to trigger such a primitive, hurt child syndrome in difficult child, that I am unsure how to proceed. It has been 5 months since he has seen them, since H.'s memorial, and you would think he could tolerate it. But then I think.............. why should I make him tolerate a family member that has violated all of his boundaries in the past? Out of my guilt? Out of obligation? Because he was misbehaving at the time and everyone was doing their best? Or is it that this is just not that big of a deal, and I just need to make difficult child tough it out. That is where I am lost. [/QUOTE]
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