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difficult child has gone off the deep end
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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 620940" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>I agree that it is definitely the addict talking. My daughter used to say some CRAZY stuff, too, remember? Bullets whizzing by her head? People out to kill her? She was SO convincing, too. She was crazy and MEAN. It would completely shock me how MEAN she could be. We were blamed for everything. I chose my husband over her (even though she was only 2 years old when we got together). I loved her brother more. Oh she had such a horrble childhood. She just loved to play the victim. Especially when it got her what she wanted. She was the most manipulative person I knew. And I wondered, was this <em>her</em>?? I mean, she was ALWAYS a difficult child. I was convinced it was her true personality and that even if she ever got clean, she would still be mean and crazy.</p><p> </p><p>But that couldn't be farther from the truth. She is truly a very, very dfferent person today. She is a beautiful, wonderful person that makes me shed tears of pride now rather than anger and hurt.</p><p> </p><p>As for the blog? Who is going to read her blog that even matters in your world? I suggested an abortion to my daughter, too, because of her drug use. I had that thrown in my face a few times before she changed. But no one fought harder for my grandson than I did when she didn't abort and she knows that. </p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry that your difficult child is spiraling right now. This could finally be the turning point, but SHE needs to decide that she is finally done with this koi. I agree when people say treatment will not work if the person does not truly want help. It really hoovers wondering what it will take for that lightbulb moment to hit but I hope it hits soon...and I definitely would not give in to her demand for money...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 620940, member: 15796"] I agree that it is definitely the addict talking. My daughter used to say some CRAZY stuff, too, remember? Bullets whizzing by her head? People out to kill her? She was SO convincing, too. She was crazy and MEAN. It would completely shock me how MEAN she could be. We were blamed for everything. I chose my husband over her (even though she was only 2 years old when we got together). I loved her brother more. Oh she had such a horrble childhood. She just loved to play the victim. Especially when it got her what she wanted. She was the most manipulative person I knew. And I wondered, was this [I]her[/I]?? I mean, she was ALWAYS a difficult child. I was convinced it was her true personality and that even if she ever got clean, she would still be mean and crazy. But that couldn't be farther from the truth. She is truly a very, very dfferent person today. She is a beautiful, wonderful person that makes me shed tears of pride now rather than anger and hurt. As for the blog? Who is going to read her blog that even matters in your world? I suggested an abortion to my daughter, too, because of her drug use. I had that thrown in my face a few times before she changed. But no one fought harder for my grandson than I did when she didn't abort and she knows that. I am so sorry that your difficult child is spiraling right now. This could finally be the turning point, but SHE needs to decide that she is finally done with this koi. I agree when people say treatment will not work if the person does not truly want help. It really hoovers wondering what it will take for that lightbulb moment to hit but I hope it hits soon...and I definitely would not give in to her demand for money... [/QUOTE]
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