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difficult child has gone off the deep end
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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 621517" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>TL, I agree with you which is why we have been willing to spend so much on treatment for her. However, there has to come a point where we can stop or this will continue until we die. husband and I would like to retire in two years which means we have to start paying off some loans (one of which is difficult child's treatment loan) and we can't do that and support her, too.</p><p></p><p>I don't regret anything we have done so far but I'm not sure if it can or should continue. That's if she even goes into treatment. Right now she does have another full time job which she could support herself on if she really budgets but she is not good at that. I guess we will see if she gets better at that now that she knows we are not helping her financially anymore.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 621517, member: 1967"] TL, I agree with you which is why we have been willing to spend so much on treatment for her. However, there has to come a point where we can stop or this will continue until we die. husband and I would like to retire in two years which means we have to start paying off some loans (one of which is difficult child's treatment loan) and we can't do that and support her, too. I don't regret anything we have done so far but I'm not sure if it can or should continue. That's if she even goes into treatment. Right now she does have another full time job which she could support herself on if she really budgets but she is not good at that. I guess we will see if she gets better at that now that she knows we are not helping her financially anymore. [/QUOTE]
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