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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 468226"><p>He sounds like mine and let me tell you what I did. I have an account with just my name on it. I did not give him the pin to the debit card on that account. We have an account with both our names on it. His check is direct deposited into our account. I go online and transfer the money (minus his spending money) into my account. Then I can pay bills. This is not full proof. This is the level of intervention he had to have before he would stop spending thousands of $. My next step would've been to have his check direct deposited into my account, but he stopped spending before I insisted on that.</p><p></p><p>The emotional toll on our marriage lasted about a year after i did this. But I like a roof over my head and hot running water. It was this or he was sleeping in his van in the middle of winter and he knew it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 468226"] He sounds like mine and let me tell you what I did. I have an account with just my name on it. I did not give him the pin to the debit card on that account. We have an account with both our names on it. His check is direct deposited into our account. I go online and transfer the money (minus his spending money) into my account. Then I can pay bills. This is not full proof. This is the level of intervention he had to have before he would stop spending thousands of $. My next step would've been to have his check direct deposited into my account, but he stopped spending before I insisted on that. The emotional toll on our marriage lasted about a year after i did this. But I like a roof over my head and hot running water. It was this or he was sleeping in his van in the middle of winter and he knew it. [/QUOTE]
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