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<blockquote data-quote="MuM_of_OCD_kiddo" data-source="post: 468314" data-attributes="member: 12241"><p>Already - I am longtime single and most probably biased - and have a fairly short BS limit. I probably should keep my opinion to my mself in this regard, buuuuuuuuut I just gotta ask, why are you staying with him???? In addition to your children you are living with an irresponsible adult child that is freeloading. If this was an 18 or 20 year old young adult child not working, mooching off you and not otherwise participating in the household chores and on top of that stealing from you and wasting money on stuff that you cannot afford, everybody here would advise you to cut your losses, and put him out so he can grow up and learn how to be a man. </p><p></p><p>I think you really need to have a good long hard look at your life, your increased stress levels and added financial difficulties due to this man in your life, and maybe have some counseling and therapy for yourself to get some clarity. You would not take this kind of abuse from an older child - why would you live with a life partner who goes out of his way to undermine his families financial wellbeing? If you can't afford therapy, you ought at least go to Alanon for real life input/discussions/sounding boards etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MuM_of_OCD_kiddo, post: 468314, member: 12241"] Already - I am longtime single and most probably biased - and have a fairly short BS limit. I probably should keep my opinion to my mself in this regard, buuuuuuuuut I just gotta ask, why are you staying with him???? In addition to your children you are living with an irresponsible adult child that is freeloading. If this was an 18 or 20 year old young adult child not working, mooching off you and not otherwise participating in the household chores and on top of that stealing from you and wasting money on stuff that you cannot afford, everybody here would advise you to cut your losses, and put him out so he can grow up and learn how to be a man. I think you really need to have a good long hard look at your life, your increased stress levels and added financial difficulties due to this man in your life, and maybe have some counseling and therapy for yourself to get some clarity. You would not take this kind of abuse from an older child - why would you live with a life partner who goes out of his way to undermine his families financial wellbeing? If you can't afford therapy, you ought at least go to Alanon for real life input/discussions/sounding boards etc. [/QUOTE]
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