I am ever so frustrated, my difficult child I (he'll be 18 in less then a month) is in JDC for violating his probation, drug tests came back dirty for canibus. The court ordered he attend a residential drug abuse program for 45 days. The place interviewed him (no one told me or his case worker) and he told them he's not interested, so they're reporting back to the court that difficult child I refused their services. Ugh!!! If it's court ordered how can he refuse???