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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 370372" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Fran, I don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth. I try to rely on her behavior, attitude, physical appearance, etc. I know the girl that brought her home is fairly reliable and she told my easy child that difficult child was not with Steve after the first night and she was at another guys house with several other people. Steve did come there one night and that's when he punched her in the stomach. I'm sure these other guys are no angels either but I don't fear them like I did Steve. These guys all know each other from high school and all graduated in 08. I've done a lot of sleuthing (Suz lol) and from what I can tell they all drink and smoke pot but they aren't into sex for hire. You see I've set the bar fairly low here. She is on birth control and she seems clear headed and not beligerent. We don't ask for much anymore.</p><p></p><p>I am always on the lookout for stronger bipolar symptoms. So far her behavior seems more related to the drinking and pot binges but she has tested negative for pot now for seven months. I never see the other end of the bi with her, never see happy times. If she is bipolar it is somewhere on the spectrum that is difficult to diagnose but I would never rule that out. She has always lived in the moment with no consequences or fear or consideration for the future. She would never agree to medication again anyway.</p><p></p><p>Busy thank you for your concern. I am very concerned also and the hair on the back of my neck stood up too. I have his texts locked and backed up and won't hesitate to get a restraining order if necessary. Of course since difficult child is 19 she would have to agree so I want to keep her on our side on this matter. I'm glad husband talked to him on the phone so he can testify what he told him also. I'm not sure any of these ex-friends would go against him, difficult child claims they all saw him punch her. I already checked to see if he was a licensed massotherapist and he is not, at least not yet. If he were I would file a complaint against him. </p><p></p><p>Also something did happen between her and Steve to make her not want to move in with him because three days ago she was still moving into this house they were going to rent this weekend. Now she says she doesn;t ever want to see him again, thank goodness. The other night we got a call on our home phone from the lady who owned the house who was checking on difficult child's application to move it. I told her I had no idea where difficult child was, that she had no money and was hanging around kids that were into all sorts of illegal things and I wished her good luck renting to her. LOL she said "oh" and hung up.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 370372, member: 59"] Fran, I don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth. I try to rely on her behavior, attitude, physical appearance, etc. I know the girl that brought her home is fairly reliable and she told my easy child that difficult child was not with Steve after the first night and she was at another guys house with several other people. Steve did come there one night and that's when he punched her in the stomach. I'm sure these other guys are no angels either but I don't fear them like I did Steve. These guys all know each other from high school and all graduated in 08. I've done a lot of sleuthing (Suz lol) and from what I can tell they all drink and smoke pot but they aren't into sex for hire. You see I've set the bar fairly low here. She is on birth control and she seems clear headed and not beligerent. We don't ask for much anymore. I am always on the lookout for stronger bipolar symptoms. So far her behavior seems more related to the drinking and pot binges but she has tested negative for pot now for seven months. I never see the other end of the bi with her, never see happy times. If she is bipolar it is somewhere on the spectrum that is difficult to diagnose but I would never rule that out. She has always lived in the moment with no consequences or fear or consideration for the future. She would never agree to medication again anyway. Busy thank you for your concern. I am very concerned also and the hair on the back of my neck stood up too. I have his texts locked and backed up and won't hesitate to get a restraining order if necessary. Of course since difficult child is 19 she would have to agree so I want to keep her on our side on this matter. I'm glad husband talked to him on the phone so he can testify what he told him also. I'm not sure any of these ex-friends would go against him, difficult child claims they all saw him punch her. I already checked to see if he was a licensed massotherapist and he is not, at least not yet. If he were I would file a complaint against him. Also something did happen between her and Steve to make her not want to move in with him because three days ago she was still moving into this house they were going to rent this weekend. Now she says she doesn;t ever want to see him again, thank goodness. The other night we got a call on our home phone from the lady who owned the house who was checking on difficult child's application to move it. I told her I had no idea where difficult child was, that she had no money and was hanging around kids that were into all sorts of illegal things and I wished her good luck renting to her. LOL she said "oh" and hung up. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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