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difficult child is genuinely MEAN - Ugh!!
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<blockquote data-quote="daralex" data-source="post: 128761" data-attributes="member: 4467"><p>I am used to difficult child being fairly obnoxious on a daily basis - but how does everyone else deal with it? The more difficult child talks the colder and meaner she gets. Her friend slept over this weekend and almost went home because difficult child was saying mean things to her. She is the "hang-up" queen on her phone - If someone calls she doesn't want to speak with she hangs up on them, if they say something over the phone she doesn't like she just hangs up on them.(all you hear all day is click, click, click) She only has the one friend (gee I wonder why!) The new neighbor was very loud and she says to my boyfriend -"hey, why don't you be a man and go tell them to shut the "f" up?" i thought he was going to explode (no, he knows better and just sat there seething) It's just so hard to be around that negativity ALL the time. She is angry at the world and takes it out on anyone that comes near her. How is she ever going to make friends this way? </p><p>Do you ever get to the point that you really just don't want to be around them? I love her very much (more than anything!) but as of late I am liking her less and less. As far as I know there is no medication for ODD or plain angry-ness. She is so bitter and cold (I haven't gotten a good hug in almost a year!)and she used to hug and kiss me every day several times a day. It just seems harder and harder to keep warm fuzzy thoughts in my head when it comes to her. to top it off I have to tell her i cannot afford a "going away" party before we move in 6 weeks (who is she going to invite anyway!) and I know she is going to have a major meltdown (so I am putting it off unitl the last minute)</p><p> </p><p>She has not shown any violence towards others or animals that I know of and hasn't cut herself in over a year - she's just plain MEAN.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/furious.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":furious:" title="furious :furious:" data-shortname=":furious:" /> How do you deal with it?????</p><p>-Dara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="daralex, post: 128761, member: 4467"] I am used to difficult child being fairly obnoxious on a daily basis - but how does everyone else deal with it? The more difficult child talks the colder and meaner she gets. Her friend slept over this weekend and almost went home because difficult child was saying mean things to her. She is the "hang-up" queen on her phone - If someone calls she doesn't want to speak with she hangs up on them, if they say something over the phone she doesn't like she just hangs up on them.(all you hear all day is click, click, click) She only has the one friend (gee I wonder why!) The new neighbor was very loud and she says to my boyfriend -"hey, why don't you be a man and go tell them to shut the "f" up?" i thought he was going to explode (no, he knows better and just sat there seething) It's just so hard to be around that negativity ALL the time. She is angry at the world and takes it out on anyone that comes near her. How is she ever going to make friends this way? Do you ever get to the point that you really just don't want to be around them? I love her very much (more than anything!) but as of late I am liking her less and less. As far as I know there is no medication for ODD or plain angry-ness. She is so bitter and cold (I haven't gotten a good hug in almost a year!)and she used to hug and kiss me every day several times a day. It just seems harder and harder to keep warm fuzzy thoughts in my head when it comes to her. to top it off I have to tell her i cannot afford a "going away" party before we move in 6 weeks (who is she going to invite anyway!) and I know she is going to have a major meltdown (so I am putting it off unitl the last minute) She has not shown any violence towards others or animals that I know of and hasn't cut herself in over a year - she's just plain MEAN.:furious: How do you deal with it????? -Dara [/QUOTE]
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