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difficult child is leeping in an ATM vestibule
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 569022" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>It so so hard! I can tell you from experience that when my difficult child was about 20 I cosigned for an apartment for he and his girlfriend. It didn't last 2 months!</p><p></p><p>The first experience was not their fault (never is!) because a group of uninvited males friends came over drinking and the neighbors complained. Police came and send everyone home.</p><p></p><p>Next month they were exvicted, same thing. I lost my desposit but at least the apartments had a waiting list so I wasn't liable for the next 4 months rent.</p><p></p><p>To this day my 34yo will ask me to cosign for him. They never give up! But that was my first and last! I should have known better then.</p><p></p><p>Stay busy, there truly is nothing you can do, it is his life. Mine has no contact with me now, everything is my fault, it always is when I refuse to give him money. I use the time at the gym on the bicycle to read and reread self help books.</p><p></p><p>(((huggs an blessings for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 569022, member: 13558"] It so so hard! I can tell you from experience that when my difficult child was about 20 I cosigned for an apartment for he and his girlfriend. It didn't last 2 months! The first experience was not their fault (never is!) because a group of uninvited males friends came over drinking and the neighbors complained. Police came and send everyone home. Next month they were exvicted, same thing. I lost my desposit but at least the apartments had a waiting list so I wasn't liable for the next 4 months rent. To this day my 34yo will ask me to cosign for him. They never give up! But that was my first and last! I should have known better then. Stay busy, there truly is nothing you can do, it is his life. Mine has no contact with me now, everything is my fault, it always is when I refuse to give him money. I use the time at the gym on the bicycle to read and reread self help books. (((huggs an blessings for us all))) [/QUOTE]
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