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difficult child is "the worst", again
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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 225121" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>(((((HUGS)))))</p><p> </p><p>Even if he's getting negative feedback from the staff, which he does need to hear to a point, you have the role as the "rock" for him and can do a lot I think in reminding him of the things he does that are RIGHT. That doesn't mean you shouldn't reinforce the hard lessons he has to learn from his past mistakes, but you can also lift him up with your love and shine the light on the good that is in him and that he can choose to do. </p><p> </p><p>I also think you should reinforce with staff his need to hear positive feedback along with the lessons about his mistakes, and the consequences they will reap if they fail to remember this. He is fragile, despite his destructiveness. </p><p> </p><p>Hang in there. You are doing the best you can and that's all anyone can ask.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 225121, member: 3444"] (((((HUGS))))) Even if he's getting negative feedback from the staff, which he does need to hear to a point, you have the role as the "rock" for him and can do a lot I think in reminding him of the things he does that are RIGHT. That doesn't mean you shouldn't reinforce the hard lessons he has to learn from his past mistakes, but you can also lift him up with your love and shine the light on the good that is in him and that he can choose to do. I also think you should reinforce with staff his need to hear positive feedback along with the lessons about his mistakes, and the consequences they will reap if they fail to remember this. He is fragile, despite his destructiveness. Hang in there. You are doing the best you can and that's all anyone can ask. [/QUOTE]
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