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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 225159" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>I would be afraid of supervised calls because then I would never know if he leave important issues out because he is afraid how the staff would react to them. </p><p> </p><p>I met with colleague, who came over here a couple a years ago from Idaho. There is a pipe in the sprinklersystem in a dorm with the name Camelot in one of the schools. It is bend for a good reason dating back in 1994 with another Texasn boy and left as it was out of respect for what took place. I won't go into it, but it is about a message that didn't go through.</p><p> </p><p>If unsupervised calls upset him, them make longer so you can be finished with your conversation. If the staff wont take your calls continue to call them. I saw your previous posts and it has been hard for you to find this place, but the communication between your son and your family is very important for him if he should fight too much PTSD when he leaves.</p><p> </p><p>If they can do their job he will at some point get it better in the box environment. Then he will have to adjust back to the reality. He is 18 so he will find it easier than most, but still we could end up talking a year or more before home visits are regular and he will have the possibility to walk around those peers in your hometown he will have live with when it is over.</p><p> </p><p>I urge you to help him as much as possible so he don't miss out of what is going on at home. Having updates helps both you and him in the long run.</p><p> </p><p>I will pray that he gets through his crisis and will get better. I can feel the love for you have for your son across the Atlantic and hope that makes the difference.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 225159, member: 6326"] I would be afraid of supervised calls because then I would never know if he leave important issues out because he is afraid how the staff would react to them. I met with colleague, who came over here a couple a years ago from Idaho. There is a pipe in the sprinklersystem in a dorm with the name Camelot in one of the schools. It is bend for a good reason dating back in 1994 with another Texasn boy and left as it was out of respect for what took place. I won't go into it, but it is about a message that didn't go through. If unsupervised calls upset him, them make longer so you can be finished with your conversation. If the staff wont take your calls continue to call them. I saw your previous posts and it has been hard for you to find this place, but the communication between your son and your family is very important for him if he should fight too much PTSD when he leaves. If they can do their job he will at some point get it better in the box environment. Then he will have to adjust back to the reality. He is 18 so he will find it easier than most, but still we could end up talking a year or more before home visits are regular and he will have the possibility to walk around those peers in your hometown he will have live with when it is over. I urge you to help him as much as possible so he don't miss out of what is going on at home. Having updates helps both you and him in the long run. I will pray that he gets through his crisis and will get better. I can feel the love for you have for your son across the Atlantic and hope that makes the difference. [/QUOTE]
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