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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 186027" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>Thanks everyone, knew you would understand my feelings! Yes, easy child son is my main worry now, I can let difficult child and boyfriend go, I don't really care to talk to them. </p><p></p><p>I wanted to run an idea past you guys as to how I might get the phone number for easy child from difficult child. It's not a very nice idea but might be all I have. The kids' grandfather is being treated for acute myelogenous leukemia. He is in an experimental program that actually has put him in remission and he basically seems to be doing okay right now. The kids' dad died from complications from treatment of his chronic myelogenous leukemia 12 years ago.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I have not told easy child son or difficult child about their grandpa yet, was waiting til it looked like either he was stabilized or was not going to respond to the treatment. Here is my idea: I could call the boyfriend's cell phone and leave a message that the grandpa has leukemia but that I will only talk to easy child son about it. He needs to call me to get the info. I don't really want to "use" their grandpa in this way, makes me feel like a difficult child, but I also really need to hear from son and I don't know how else to do it since I have no phone number for him, only difficult child knows the number. I don't think she will give it to me without coercion.</p><p></p><p>What do you think--I feel evil but if I am desperate enough I just might do it.</p><p></p><p>Thanks,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 186027, member: 3208"] Thanks everyone, knew you would understand my feelings! Yes, easy child son is my main worry now, I can let difficult child and boyfriend go, I don't really care to talk to them. I wanted to run an idea past you guys as to how I might get the phone number for easy child from difficult child. It's not a very nice idea but might be all I have. The kids' grandfather is being treated for acute myelogenous leukemia. He is in an experimental program that actually has put him in remission and he basically seems to be doing okay right now. The kids' dad died from complications from treatment of his chronic myelogenous leukemia 12 years ago. Anyway, I have not told easy child son or difficult child about their grandpa yet, was waiting til it looked like either he was stabilized or was not going to respond to the treatment. Here is my idea: I could call the boyfriend's cell phone and leave a message that the grandpa has leukemia but that I will only talk to easy child son about it. He needs to call me to get the info. I don't really want to "use" their grandpa in this way, makes me feel like a difficult child, but I also really need to hear from son and I don't know how else to do it since I have no phone number for him, only difficult child knows the number. I don't think she will give it to me without coercion. What do you think--I feel evil but if I am desperate enough I just might do it. Thanks, Jane [/QUOTE]
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