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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 589163" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ulcers can make you pretty dang sick. My grandma had a bleeding peptic ulcer and no matter how she took care of it, it was still a loose cannon sometimes. I would listen to the doctor and ignore your idiot ex. Custody hearings cost so much money that unless he's a really rich man it will be hard to go to court and get custody based on her having a real medical issue that you are concerned with while he complains she is faking it. My guess is if he went alone (no lawyer) the judge would kick him out. I doubt a lawyer would even take his case, because he has no case. It's not that easy to get custody switched. Judges don't like to do it. My son dated a divorce attorney for a while and I learned a lot. Custody battles are mainly for the rich because they are long, drawn out, often require specialists whom the person has to pay and a judge doesn't listen to a person who doesn't have a lawyer. This lawyer my son was dating was fighting for custody with her ex, also a lawyer. So far she had spent $80,000 on the hearing and it wasn't resolved yet. You can't go to court one time and get custody changed. It can drag out for years. Which is why most people can't have long, drawn out custody hearings and custody usually stays as it was stated in the decree.</p><p></p><p>As for Mom, I hope you informed the nurse and school in general that as the custodial parent, they are only to listen to you, not Mom. I'm always amazed at how many mothers are nosy and intrusive and undermine what their daughter's say or do. Do they all want to be like MY mom was???? Seriously, we ended up not speaking for ten years. </p><p></p><p>I think you're doing everything right. You called the doctor. You talked to the nurse. You have a sick daughter and everyone else is just going to have to deal with it until she is better. I'm curious. Did the gastro guy put her on an antibiotic? I heard that nowadays they do that to treat certain types of ulcers. I'm not suggesting you ask him to do that if he hasn't, I'm just curious about ulcer treatment. Also, I have gastric reflux and I LOVE GINGER. I put it on everything. It's soothing to my stomach so perhaps it would make your daughter feel better. Of course, ulcers are different.</p><p></p><p>Hugs!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 589163, member: 1550"] Ulcers can make you pretty dang sick. My grandma had a bleeding peptic ulcer and no matter how she took care of it, it was still a loose cannon sometimes. I would listen to the doctor and ignore your idiot ex. Custody hearings cost so much money that unless he's a really rich man it will be hard to go to court and get custody based on her having a real medical issue that you are concerned with while he complains she is faking it. My guess is if he went alone (no lawyer) the judge would kick him out. I doubt a lawyer would even take his case, because he has no case. It's not that easy to get custody switched. Judges don't like to do it. My son dated a divorce attorney for a while and I learned a lot. Custody battles are mainly for the rich because they are long, drawn out, often require specialists whom the person has to pay and a judge doesn't listen to a person who doesn't have a lawyer. This lawyer my son was dating was fighting for custody with her ex, also a lawyer. So far she had spent $80,000 on the hearing and it wasn't resolved yet. You can't go to court one time and get custody changed. It can drag out for years. Which is why most people can't have long, drawn out custody hearings and custody usually stays as it was stated in the decree. As for Mom, I hope you informed the nurse and school in general that as the custodial parent, they are only to listen to you, not Mom. I'm always amazed at how many mothers are nosy and intrusive and undermine what their daughter's say or do. Do they all want to be like MY mom was???? Seriously, we ended up not speaking for ten years. I think you're doing everything right. You called the doctor. You talked to the nurse. You have a sick daughter and everyone else is just going to have to deal with it until she is better. I'm curious. Did the gastro guy put her on an antibiotic? I heard that nowadays they do that to treat certain types of ulcers. I'm not suggesting you ask him to do that if he hasn't, I'm just curious about ulcer treatment. Also, I have gastric reflux and I LOVE GINGER. I put it on everything. It's soothing to my stomach so perhaps it would make your daughter feel better. Of course, ulcers are different. Hugs!!!! [/QUOTE]
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