difficult child came in to say goodnight when she got home last night. She had gone out to dinner with her cousin who is now living in Atlanta. My niece (same age as difficult child) is in the National Guard and has gone on three tours of duty in Afghanistan and Iraq. She is currently the youngest sergeant in her platoon. We are so proud of her. Ironically, my niece came from a very poor background and had practically nothing but has overcome all of that to become a very successful young adult.
Anyway, difficult child laid down in bed with me to catch me up on what my niece was up to and then we started talking about difficult child's day at work. She said she is really happy there and is so glad she ended up getting that job. She also told me about an 18-year-old who works there that was having problems getting along with her mother and said she can't wait to leave home.
difficult child told her she used to feel like that, too, but now her mother was her best friend. I couldn't believe those words were coming out of her mouth. She followed that up by saying that she felt like she could talk to me about anything. I told her that someone once told me that you end up closest to the child that you had the most problems with. difficult child said, "So you are closer to me than easy child?" I laughed and said "Well, at least physically since you are living here." difficult child laughed, too.
Sometimes it scares me since things are going so well. It will hurt so much more if this all blows up in my face. I still worry every time that difficult child leaves the house. I wonder if I will ever really feel like things will be okay and stop worrying.
I am certainly not there yet.
~Kathy
Anyway, difficult child laid down in bed with me to catch me up on what my niece was up to and then we started talking about difficult child's day at work. She said she is really happy there and is so glad she ended up getting that job. She also told me about an 18-year-old who works there that was having problems getting along with her mother and said she can't wait to leave home.
difficult child told her she used to feel like that, too, but now her mother was her best friend. I couldn't believe those words were coming out of her mouth. She followed that up by saying that she felt like she could talk to me about anything. I told her that someone once told me that you end up closest to the child that you had the most problems with. difficult child said, "So you are closer to me than easy child?" I laughed and said "Well, at least physically since you are living here." difficult child laughed, too.
Sometimes it scares me since things are going so well. It will hurt so much more if this all blows up in my face. I still worry every time that difficult child leaves the house. I wonder if I will ever really feel like things will be okay and stop worrying.
I am certainly not there yet.
~Kathy