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difficult child out of jail, refuses rehab, I'm losing all hope for him
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 508811" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You bailed him out right? REVOKE THAT BAIL! </p><p></p><p>A weekend is not enough to change anyone. Im sorry. I know I am mean. I know I sound awful and pushy and stupid and negative and every other awful adjective out there you can think of. You are probably thinking that I am the most horrible mother around who could ever have her kid arrested, not post bail, revoke the bail and everything else that comes along with that. Well I guess I am. I have done it a few times. And I cried my eyes out every single time. </p><p></p><p>I remember sitting at the crossroads waiting for the bondsmen to go to my house to revoke his bail and crying on the phone to his middle brother who was still in the marines at the time. I think...maybe not...cant remember. He has always been either a military policeman or working for the sheriff's dept so its hard to keep straight. All I know is that while one kid was being taken away, I was sobbing to the other begging him to tell me everything would be okay, that I was doing the right thing. </p><p></p><p>I have had to drive him to the jail and walk him to the door to turn him in. And drive away again. It tears my heart out. One time they got the date wrong and we had to come back the next day! Talk about over emotional. I thought I would break down and so did he. I was floored they did that. </p><p></p><p>Please, be strong now so you dont have to do this over and over again like I have. I am praying that I am done with it but I dont know that I am. Cory could backslide tomorrow. I will never say he wont.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 508811, member: 1514"] You bailed him out right? REVOKE THAT BAIL! A weekend is not enough to change anyone. Im sorry. I know I am mean. I know I sound awful and pushy and stupid and negative and every other awful adjective out there you can think of. You are probably thinking that I am the most horrible mother around who could ever have her kid arrested, not post bail, revoke the bail and everything else that comes along with that. Well I guess I am. I have done it a few times. And I cried my eyes out every single time. I remember sitting at the crossroads waiting for the bondsmen to go to my house to revoke his bail and crying on the phone to his middle brother who was still in the marines at the time. I think...maybe not...cant remember. He has always been either a military policeman or working for the sheriff's dept so its hard to keep straight. All I know is that while one kid was being taken away, I was sobbing to the other begging him to tell me everything would be okay, that I was doing the right thing. I have had to drive him to the jail and walk him to the door to turn him in. And drive away again. It tears my heart out. One time they got the date wrong and we had to come back the next day! Talk about over emotional. I thought I would break down and so did he. I was floored they did that. Please, be strong now so you dont have to do this over and over again like I have. I am praying that I am done with it but I dont know that I am. Cory could backslide tomorrow. I will never say he wont. [/QUOTE]
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