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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 241080" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This sounds like something that needs to be specifically addressed with psychiatrist and therapist. The part where she has a meltdown if he touches you, and now if you are in the same room is worrisome to me. Somehow you need to have her learn that the marriage bond comes first. That you and husband are married and are supposed to have a close and loving and affectionate relationship in order for the family to be healthy. </p><p></p><p>I don't know how to get that through to her, but if you don't get her to learn this the teenage years are going to be horrible. Maybe ignore the meltdowns or tell her it is fine to melt down over Dad and Mom hugging or giving footrubs, but she must do it in HER room, not in the room with you? I am sure she gets plenty of Mom time, so to have her leave the room when she melts down over this might be OK. This is just an idea, a suggestion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 241080, member: 1233"] This sounds like something that needs to be specifically addressed with psychiatrist and therapist. The part where she has a meltdown if he touches you, and now if you are in the same room is worrisome to me. Somehow you need to have her learn that the marriage bond comes first. That you and husband are married and are supposed to have a close and loving and affectionate relationship in order for the family to be healthy. I don't know how to get that through to her, but if you don't get her to learn this the teenage years are going to be horrible. Maybe ignore the meltdowns or tell her it is fine to melt down over Dad and Mom hugging or giving footrubs, but she must do it in HER room, not in the room with you? I am sure she gets plenty of Mom time, so to have her leave the room when she melts down over this might be OK. This is just an idea, a suggestion. [/QUOTE]
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