They had falling out the other day. Apparently oldest difficult child wishes younger difficult child were never born, sigh...so sad. They used to be very close...but yet polar opposites as far a personality and inclinations...with the exception of their drug/alcohol use beginning in the teen years. difficult child is still staying in Extended stay hotel. He quit his job on Wed. and by Thurs morn had interview with fellow "Fire Alarm Install" company. I believe he is supposed to start his new job this Tues. husband says that difficult child is being given a job as a "lead"...this should be interesting as difficult child does not have the best negotiating/compromising skills and difficulty expressing direction. He mentioned suicidal feelings to me the other day and I told him it sounded like he needed to be in a hospital. I don't know what will happen next...I try and stay very positive though when I speak to him. I called to speak to daughter in law last night at her mother's home and daughter in law and grandkids were apparently out with difficult child. difficult child told me that he thinks he will be able to rent a mobile home from someone he will be working with soon...but who knows. Please hold on to a good thought for difficult child. It is his time to "make it or break it" as they say! LMS ps...husband and I are no longer supplying gas, food, housing, $$$...Only emotional support.