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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 380365"><p>Sounds like my difficult child. However it isn't always like that. He can be sweet and hug me. Says he loves me every morning when I drop him off at school, and when I call him (when I am out of town for work)</p><p>But then there are the days when for whatever reason he gets set off, in turn sets me off. I tell him not to talk to me that way, but he does. He later will apologize and tell me that "you know when I get angry I can't control myself, I don't know what to do, I didn't mean it....I'm sorry". But it is the same apology time after time. In addition to this he also punches the doors, walls, side of the house (which know has knuckle marks dented in the siding) and last he puched the refridgerator which now has dents and knuckle marks in the front. His bedroom door is nothing but broken wood. Too many holes to actually have one hole, the entire door is a hole. Holes in the walls.</p><p> </p><p>psychiatrist said "get over it he was mad, we all say things when we are mad". I am having a difficult time with that. I can't imagine ever speaking to my parents that way and I can't ever imagine telling someone to hurt my mother.</p><p> </p><p>I need to get that book smallworld suggested. My difficult child does have problems and we are working on the right combination of medication and treatment. Hoping we will find the right combination soon before he gives up again on treatments.</p><p> </p><p>I know it is difficult. I know it hurts your heart. Is there ever a time when he isn't angry, when you can have a close heart to heart talk? Would he respond respectfully then? It is so scary and frustrating when you have to be walking on egg shells around your own child in fear of what he may or maynot say/do. Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 380365"] Sounds like my difficult child. However it isn't always like that. He can be sweet and hug me. Says he loves me every morning when I drop him off at school, and when I call him (when I am out of town for work) But then there are the days when for whatever reason he gets set off, in turn sets me off. I tell him not to talk to me that way, but he does. He later will apologize and tell me that "you know when I get angry I can't control myself, I don't know what to do, I didn't mean it....I'm sorry". But it is the same apology time after time. In addition to this he also punches the doors, walls, side of the house (which know has knuckle marks dented in the siding) and last he puched the refridgerator which now has dents and knuckle marks in the front. His bedroom door is nothing but broken wood. Too many holes to actually have one hole, the entire door is a hole. Holes in the walls. psychiatrist said "get over it he was mad, we all say things when we are mad". I am having a difficult time with that. I can't imagine ever speaking to my parents that way and I can't ever imagine telling someone to hurt my mother. I need to get that book smallworld suggested. My difficult child does have problems and we are working on the right combination of medication and treatment. Hoping we will find the right combination soon before he gives up again on treatments. I know it is difficult. I know it hurts your heart. Is there ever a time when he isn't angry, when you can have a close heart to heart talk? Would he respond respectfully then? It is so scary and frustrating when you have to be walking on egg shells around your own child in fear of what he may or maynot say/do. Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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