hi so yea i'm writing about one of my stepkids finally lol. i'm seeing my stepdaugther tmrw for the first time in about umm ten mos. since our wedding!! the day of our wedding she drove with husband to the place we took photo's and cursed me the entire time, badmouthing me etc. than turned on the charm once it was picture time. my other step kids were soo upset. thats the kind of kid she is. she hastn' come to our home in about two years now. she says she doesnt' like me and thats' why she stopped coming. when she was here she abused husband and i pretty badly. she blew up, over nothing alot of times. she'd cause havoc on holidays. i mean serious havoc. we did our best to remove her each time she'd fly. she blows up in two seconds flat. smiling one second next shes' cursing you out. she' a vile girl. i do not like this kid. sorry it's the truth. and it seems to be shared bet. both of us. sooo why she's suddenly joining us tmrw for a holiday i have no clue!! i'm not too happy about it. easy child might be coming also. they do not get along at all. they used to yet they've had some fairly serious fights in the past and even in school. so i gotta plaster on my fake smile for tmrw. be polite. talk to her minimal. she used to curse me get out of "my" house, you don't have a job and pay zero bills here. can you imagine? she was younger than. she slapped difficult child one time years ago when i ran to the store quick. so im wondering why now with easy child gone is she going to weasel her way back in? i sure do hope not. i will be hating mondays and wednesdays that i now love with the 3 little ones. shes rude, attention seeking, a slob, eats everything in our home literally, shes defiant, nasty. hard to explain it's like you walk on eggshells when she's around. one holiday husband just simply took her out of the house as soon as she started, and his family well their a bunch of ding bats they usually rev her up. he brought her outside called ex who came and got her. she than flipped out on his ex and jumped out of her truck on a highway and husband had to run out again to help her. so god help me tmrw. is all i can say. him and i sat down and agreed if she starts her **** he puts her in truck and drives her to her house 30 min. away. if easy child starts i take her and drop her umm i dunno in middle of town?? LOL. i wish i didn't feel this way, yet i dont' even like being in her space. she is so desperate for attention and his family plays right into it. easy child will struggle tmrw if she comes. she always has around her. it's her grandparents etc. so they give stepdaughter attention whereas easy child just sits there with me. she monopolizes conversations, she texts husband all day long about how she's feeling, i dont' feel well, jens annoying, on and on she goes. UGH! i told him little one's holiday can't be ruined by these two i'm not having it........ crazy right??? oh man i dont like this kid so much..... thats so bad right??