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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 518940" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>Thank you everybody. I hardly slept last night (surprize-I don't know how any of us get through the day so sleep deprived constantly). My son has to call his agent on Monday and we told him to do what ever they needed. She has to go to the justice court in 14 days. I don't even know if the information will get to her jjs judge-hope it will. I'm still mad at him for releasing her in Aug. after she almost completed suicide in the state Residential Treatment Center (RTC). She was in no shape to be released, but all he could say to us was, "What do you want, a magic bullet? I'll be seeing her in my courtroom again. Good luck." There was a stayed order to put her in secure care until age 21, we didn't want that we wanted treatment. How stupid were we? It seems that no treatment has really worked as she justifies her behavior and is delusional about it as well. The psychiatric hospital. doctor told us no more programs they are making her PTSD worse. So what then? Jail is the only safe thing I guess.</p><p></p><p>You were right Kathy. Her friend that she supposedly went to rescue did not call her in distress...so he says. He's a difficult child as well but I don't think he was lying to me though. She takes advantage of him as well. He told me that they were not smoking pot together the last 2 weeks and trying to get their lives together. He got hired at the golden arches as well. Its true I have not seen her high in a few weeks but that doesn't mean anything. Everything that is said is just blah blah blah at this point!</p><p></p><p>DDD-I could call it typical teen if she had a license at all but we have been explicit about the whole driving thing. We have told her under no circumstance would we sign at this point for her to get driver training or a license because she has not been sober and doesn't show any impulse control. What she did was so far out of the realm of lawfullness. She has driven on back roads in the country maybe 2 times-no experience. Even driving the mile she drove in our neighborhood is scary because she had to drive a busy road in an old vehicle with no power steering! I don't know it just seems so gfgish.</p><p></p><p>She is bruised up and has some nasty abrasions. They ran a ct scan on her chest as it was so bruised and exrays on her knee. Nothing broken. But that emergency room bill is going to be well over 5 grand. We will end up paying it as my son's liability will not cover it because it was theft and ours wont cover it because of the liability. I'm stinkin mad!</p><p></p><p>Tomorrow is my birthday and I just don't even want to celebrate with this and my mom so sick. What a pitifull mess. I just want my normal and peaceful life back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 518940, member: 11001"] Thank you everybody. I hardly slept last night (surprize-I don't know how any of us get through the day so sleep deprived constantly). My son has to call his agent on Monday and we told him to do what ever they needed. She has to go to the justice court in 14 days. I don't even know if the information will get to her jjs judge-hope it will. I'm still mad at him for releasing her in Aug. after she almost completed suicide in the state Residential Treatment Center (RTC). She was in no shape to be released, but all he could say to us was, "What do you want, a magic bullet? I'll be seeing her in my courtroom again. Good luck." There was a stayed order to put her in secure care until age 21, we didn't want that we wanted treatment. How stupid were we? It seems that no treatment has really worked as she justifies her behavior and is delusional about it as well. The psychiatric hospital. doctor told us no more programs they are making her PTSD worse. So what then? Jail is the only safe thing I guess. You were right Kathy. Her friend that she supposedly went to rescue did not call her in distress...so he says. He's a difficult child as well but I don't think he was lying to me though. She takes advantage of him as well. He told me that they were not smoking pot together the last 2 weeks and trying to get their lives together. He got hired at the golden arches as well. Its true I have not seen her high in a few weeks but that doesn't mean anything. Everything that is said is just blah blah blah at this point! DDD-I could call it typical teen if she had a license at all but we have been explicit about the whole driving thing. We have told her under no circumstance would we sign at this point for her to get driver training or a license because she has not been sober and doesn't show any impulse control. What she did was so far out of the realm of lawfullness. She has driven on back roads in the country maybe 2 times-no experience. Even driving the mile she drove in our neighborhood is scary because she had to drive a busy road in an old vehicle with no power steering! I don't know it just seems so gfgish. She is bruised up and has some nasty abrasions. They ran a ct scan on her chest as it was so bruised and exrays on her knee. Nothing broken. But that emergency room bill is going to be well over 5 grand. We will end up paying it as my son's liability will not cover it because it was theft and ours wont cover it because of the liability. I'm stinkin mad! Tomorrow is my birthday and I just don't even want to celebrate with this and my mom so sick. What a pitifull mess. I just want my normal and peaceful life back. [/QUOTE]
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