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difficult child stold her brothers car and crashed!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 519116" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>My difficult child has said many of the same things, I am not trying to hurt you I'm trying to hurt myself, I'm never going to be different, just leave me alone, don't try to change me, you don't really love me, I don't blame you for hating me, I do feel bad inside I just don't show it, I'll be gone from your life soon, yadda yadda yadda.husband use to say that she was tormented inside. I have my doubts about that and sometimes thought she just wants to do what feels good at the moment without regard to whatis right or wrong or who it hurts.</p><p></p><p>I don't know how you deal with someone like that because obviously I didn't do a good job.And both mine an dyour difficult child has been through years of therapy and that hasn't helped so I don't think there is help. People use to say she woud change as she matured. I knew in my heart it would only get worse. It's just a shame we can't turn our feelings off as easily as they can, it would be so much easier to to worry about them every second of the day. If you or I had done what she did we would be so remorseful and wouldn't be able to face anyone, let alone get all dressed up to visit friends. It just shows you how differently they think.</p><p></p><p>I hope you enjoy dinner with husband and easy child and that she stays away at least until you are back. It isn't fair what we are going through. We are good people who have done everything in our power to give our difficult child's the foundation they need to be good honorable people, and they behave in ways that is completely against what we believe.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 519116, member: 59"] My difficult child has said many of the same things, I am not trying to hurt you I'm trying to hurt myself, I'm never going to be different, just leave me alone, don't try to change me, you don't really love me, I don't blame you for hating me, I do feel bad inside I just don't show it, I'll be gone from your life soon, yadda yadda yadda.husband use to say that she was tormented inside. I have my doubts about that and sometimes thought she just wants to do what feels good at the moment without regard to whatis right or wrong or who it hurts. I don't know how you deal with someone like that because obviously I didn't do a good job.And both mine an dyour difficult child has been through years of therapy and that hasn't helped so I don't think there is help. People use to say she woud change as she matured. I knew in my heart it would only get worse. It's just a shame we can't turn our feelings off as easily as they can, it would be so much easier to to worry about them every second of the day. If you or I had done what she did we would be so remorseful and wouldn't be able to face anyone, let alone get all dressed up to visit friends. It just shows you how differently they think. I hope you enjoy dinner with husband and easy child and that she stays away at least until you are back. It isn't fair what we are going through. We are good people who have done everything in our power to give our difficult child's the foundation they need to be good honorable people, and they behave in ways that is completely against what we believe. Hugs, Nancy [/QUOTE]
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