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difficult child stold her brothers car and crashed!
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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 519131" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>It is good to hear that other difficult children say these things because I often feel my chain is being yanked or that she is crazier than your normal crazy (which she kidda is by the way). Nancy, in no way have we earned this badge of missery (the karma people are soooo wrong, sorry!) I have heard many say they will grow out of it-mine did. Or I know someone who...... I have no evidence of this in my difficult child. She is actually getting worse over time when you think about her choices vs. her situations.</p><p></p><p>I do worry about her ending up dead. Mine is a major risk taker and lives on the edge of self destruction. She has no regard for her life and openly says she wont live to see 25. I can't imagine many more years of this but death does scare me. I unfortunetly struggle all the time with the decisions I have made regarding her treatment and parenting her. I constantly have to reassure myself that I have done the best I could and put away the guilt. She often rubs the decisions we have made in our face and tries to tell us we made her worse. And then the next day she loves us and she is lucky. Isn't it sad when we so easily get on their roller coaster and let their drama and vicious words go to our heads? Maybe I am the only one, but I have to work at it daily. Thanks for the understanding <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 519131, member: 11001"] It is good to hear that other difficult children say these things because I often feel my chain is being yanked or that she is crazier than your normal crazy (which she kidda is by the way). Nancy, in no way have we earned this badge of missery (the karma people are soooo wrong, sorry!) I have heard many say they will grow out of it-mine did. Or I know someone who...... I have no evidence of this in my difficult child. She is actually getting worse over time when you think about her choices vs. her situations. I do worry about her ending up dead. Mine is a major risk taker and lives on the edge of self destruction. She has no regard for her life and openly says she wont live to see 25. I can't imagine many more years of this but death does scare me. I unfortunetly struggle all the time with the decisions I have made regarding her treatment and parenting her. I constantly have to reassure myself that I have done the best I could and put away the guilt. She often rubs the decisions we have made in our face and tries to tell us we made her worse. And then the next day she loves us and she is lucky. Isn't it sad when we so easily get on their roller coaster and let their drama and vicious words go to our heads? Maybe I am the only one, but I have to work at it daily. Thanks for the understanding :) [/QUOTE]
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