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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 271804" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I've read through this entire thread and am so surprised to see that not one person suggested you leave this household. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">It would seem to me that not only are you all in danger, but you are not living in any peaceful way whatsoever at any time. You're all constantly on alert! How can you sleep at night?</span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">It sounds as if your H is in some sort of denial about the seriousness of his son's actions. That he won't go get a second opinion from another set of docs is unreasonable to me. Perhaps he knows that he's hearing what he wants to hear from the present set of docs and he's afraid that a new set will REALLY lay it on the line and tell him his son needs to be removed from the home? Frisking him at night before bed obviously is not enough. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">If your H will not take the next step to make sure the rest of the family is SAFE, then perhaps it is time for you to find somewhere else to stay, even if it's until H does what he needs to do. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Given the fact that you are not involved in the therapy or dr appts, etc., the only thing you have any control over, really, is how you react to the present conditions in your home. And for me, that would be to get out of there. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">The look you describe, the horrifying actions towards your daughter, the destructive behavior, the fact that your daughter can never EVER be alone with her brother for fear that he may harm her or sexually assault her would all be good enough for me to get out. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I'm so sorry for the situation you're living. Sending hugs and support and strength.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 271804, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I've read through this entire thread and am so surprised to see that not one person suggested you leave this household. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]It would seem to me that not only are you all in danger, but you are not living in any peaceful way whatsoever at any time. You're all constantly on alert! How can you sleep at night?[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]It sounds as if your H is in some sort of denial about the seriousness of his son's actions. That he won't go get a second opinion from another set of docs is unreasonable to me. Perhaps he knows that he's hearing what he wants to hear from the present set of docs and he's afraid that a new set will REALLY lay it on the line and tell him his son needs to be removed from the home? Frisking him at night before bed obviously is not enough. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]If your H will not take the next step to make sure the rest of the family is SAFE, then perhaps it is time for you to find somewhere else to stay, even if it's until H does what he needs to do. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Given the fact that you are not involved in the therapy or dr appts, etc., the only thing you have any control over, really, is how you react to the present conditions in your home. And for me, that would be to get out of there. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]The look you describe, the horrifying actions towards your daughter, the destructive behavior, the fact that your daughter can never EVER be alone with her brother for fear that he may harm her or sexually assault her would all be good enough for me to get out. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I'm so sorry for the situation you're living. Sending hugs and support and strength.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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