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<blockquote data-quote="maril" data-source="post: 272319" data-attributes="member: 5937"><p>I had read your post re consulting with attorney about Medicaid, etc., and felt hopeful; then on reading the followup post you made, I realized you are in a tough position since your husband is having a hard time/as you say, in denial/doesn't want the "stigma." Maybe it will take time, but I would not give up on husband. Is there anyone that both he and you would feel comfortable talking with as a "mediator type," who would be on the same page as you/support your ideas? I do respect your husband's feelings, as this is not an easy choice. However, MWM made a very good point regarding the possible bleak outlook for your stepson's future by not pursuing further treatment.</p><p> </p><p>My difficult child was recently discharged from court-ordered inpatient treatment at a dual diagnosis facility. husband and I were impressed with the facility and our son's progress. We are hopeful for him; although, we realize he still has an uphill battle. I do recognize there may be a stigma attached but in hindsight also realize that difficult child was headed for disaster if there had been no intervention. </p><p> </p><p>Hang in there. I hope whatever is decided will be positive for you all.</p><p> </p><p>**I wanted to add as an afterthought that in our personal case when I refer to "stigma" -- it is referring to the fact that I have become aware that there are a few people in our community who do not understand my difficult children struggles with illness and substance dependence; as far as Medicaid goes, we personally have no experience with that at this time but may apply as time goes on (have bookmarked our state's website) depending on what our insurance will cover for future treatment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="maril, post: 272319, member: 5937"] I had read your post re consulting with attorney about Medicaid, etc., and felt hopeful; then on reading the followup post you made, I realized you are in a tough position since your husband is having a hard time/as you say, in denial/doesn't want the "stigma." Maybe it will take time, but I would not give up on husband. Is there anyone that both he and you would feel comfortable talking with as a "mediator type," who would be on the same page as you/support your ideas? I do respect your husband's feelings, as this is not an easy choice. However, MWM made a very good point regarding the possible bleak outlook for your stepson's future by not pursuing further treatment. My difficult child was recently discharged from court-ordered inpatient treatment at a dual diagnosis facility. husband and I were impressed with the facility and our son's progress. We are hopeful for him; although, we realize he still has an uphill battle. I do recognize there may be a stigma attached but in hindsight also realize that difficult child was headed for disaster if there had been no intervention. Hang in there. I hope whatever is decided will be positive for you all. **I wanted to add as an afterthought that in our personal case when I refer to "stigma" -- it is referring to the fact that I have become aware that there are a few people in our community who do not understand my difficult children struggles with illness and substance dependence; as far as Medicaid goes, we personally have no experience with that at this time but may apply as time goes on (have bookmarked our state's website) depending on what our insurance will cover for future treatment. [/QUOTE]
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