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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 231295" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi i'm back LOL. sheesh i dedicate my entire night strictly to her and easy child now i feel like i have to make up lost time from work. i am tired. very actually overtired at this point. Yet it's a good tired if that makes any sense or maybe i'm just dillussional who knows!! </p><p> </p><p>Butterfly - yes so far so good, keeping fingers crossed. thanks!</p><p> </p><p>klmno and bran - Hi, i've been thinking about both of you. so, sheesh i soo wanna know what you and difficult child are up to i read the longer post when i got a few min. yesterday. i hope you guys are well. difficult child well she's holding her own, yet as i said meltdowns have occured i was totally expecting them, but hey she's getting to sleep and that's what counts also. her anxiety has def. increased during the day but she's actually listening to the things i taught her the past year and actually starting to utilize them. Yet bedtime is hardest. I'Tourette's Syndrome when it all comes out. She's having friend issues this week with the one friend she made who is ignoring her she is hurt and needed a shoulder and alot of hugs and alot of ideas. </p><p> </p><p>It's alot for her yet she keeps giving me thumbs up everyday it's her "new" thing when she's made it through another day with-o nurse and controlling her feelings. Amazing. boyfriend well sheesh what can I say he's made it hard on me this week he really has. I'd need to post a whole other thing on watercooler for him lol. his insecurities are popping up bigtime, he's used to what our dynamic was since we have been together which was he was the bread winner and I was here taking care of easy child and mostly difficult child with her varying issues. so now it's changed and boy did he kick up till i finally blew and planted him and said your support is NOT optional here at all!</p><p> </p><p>part of loving a person is supporting them even when your scared or nervous. I told him that things have to change, effort needs to be made, and i expect him on board 100&#37; by next week. He's been texting during meetings, upset we dont have our "tea time" anymore after work to talk, upset I am sort of having to schedule him in. I told him I have a job it doesn't mean i dont' love you anymore it means i have wings and i'm soo going to use them. I said sheesh this is what i'd probably say to difficult child yet i'm using it on you. SHe's 9 with- about 6 diagnosis's and your umm how old?? Anyhow I made my point and he's beginning to calm.</p><p> </p><p>Job is scary but good. i'll post on the watercooler for that.</p><p> </p><p>thanks you guys for caring. i soo appreciate it more than you know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 231295, member: 4514"] hi i'm back LOL. sheesh i dedicate my entire night strictly to her and easy child now i feel like i have to make up lost time from work. i am tired. very actually overtired at this point. Yet it's a good tired if that makes any sense or maybe i'm just dillussional who knows!! Butterfly - yes so far so good, keeping fingers crossed. thanks! klmno and bran - Hi, i've been thinking about both of you. so, sheesh i soo wanna know what you and difficult child are up to i read the longer post when i got a few min. yesterday. i hope you guys are well. difficult child well she's holding her own, yet as i said meltdowns have occured i was totally expecting them, but hey she's getting to sleep and that's what counts also. her anxiety has def. increased during the day but she's actually listening to the things i taught her the past year and actually starting to utilize them. Yet bedtime is hardest. I'Tourette's Syndrome when it all comes out. She's having friend issues this week with the one friend she made who is ignoring her she is hurt and needed a shoulder and alot of hugs and alot of ideas. It's alot for her yet she keeps giving me thumbs up everyday it's her "new" thing when she's made it through another day with-o nurse and controlling her feelings. Amazing. boyfriend well sheesh what can I say he's made it hard on me this week he really has. I'd need to post a whole other thing on watercooler for him lol. his insecurities are popping up bigtime, he's used to what our dynamic was since we have been together which was he was the bread winner and I was here taking care of easy child and mostly difficult child with her varying issues. so now it's changed and boy did he kick up till i finally blew and planted him and said your support is NOT optional here at all! part of loving a person is supporting them even when your scared or nervous. I told him that things have to change, effort needs to be made, and i expect him on board 100% by next week. He's been texting during meetings, upset we dont have our "tea time" anymore after work to talk, upset I am sort of having to schedule him in. I told him I have a job it doesn't mean i dont' love you anymore it means i have wings and i'm soo going to use them. I said sheesh this is what i'd probably say to difficult child yet i'm using it on you. SHe's 9 with- about 6 diagnosis's and your umm how old?? Anyhow I made my point and he's beginning to calm. Job is scary but good. i'll post on the watercooler for that. thanks you guys for caring. i soo appreciate it more than you know. [/QUOTE]
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