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difficult child upped the ante ~ police and ambulance were here
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 478540" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Very late to this thread. I want to say that how you handles that situation sounds wonderfully focused and strong and firm. Even I'd she is manipulating you can't avoid your own home and garage. Detachment sounds under way for you and you seem to be seeking more methods. Great steps. Whe she arrived on the doorstep detachment is ripped away for that time. I think you did right. Checked her safety, called for help, had her removed. I do think now you might up the anty and next occurrence allow police to enforce the trespassing order. It's the next step if this didn't clue her in that you mean business. </p><p></p><p>On the idea of AA, as others said it isn't for everyone. Counselling is going to offer you that person to unload on and help work with you to set boundaries as new things occur. That is good. </p><p></p><p>A sort of comparison re: real life support groups. I'm desperate for therapy to help resurrected sexual abuse history and help me cope through a very ugly sickening trial process. Funds aren't there. Self pay means no wedding for me as its one or the other id bills too are to be paid. That rat funk will NOT rob me of my wedding. Group support is the only free resource available to me. Everyone pushes and pushes me to go. I know it helps many. It helped me back as a teen and early 20's whe I dealt with all this first time around. Eventually I facilitated a group on Toronto myself so I know many benefit. This pint in my life it is not what I want and not what I need. My reasons are valid and varied and people don't hear me and insist that barring private therapy i must go to his group. Not fing to happen. My reasons are valid. So I have no local help coupon for now. It hurts but I'm not givin up finding a solution. Nor will I go to the group hat oat a right fit for me. Often I come here with my thoughts and seek support. Other times I struggle greatly alone. Still that doesn't make this particular group the right place for me. It is no reflection of my need and desire for help. If something is wrong for you it is wrong for you. You keep trying new avenues to find resources. I hope a good counsellor turns up for you and it gives you that needed real life support. </p><p></p><p>Not sure what to add but again, u think you are handling this remarkably well. Give credit when it's due you. You're doing good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 478540, member: 4264"] Very late to this thread. I want to say that how you handles that situation sounds wonderfully focused and strong and firm. Even I'd she is manipulating you can't avoid your own home and garage. Detachment sounds under way for you and you seem to be seeking more methods. Great steps. Whe she arrived on the doorstep detachment is ripped away for that time. I think you did right. Checked her safety, called for help, had her removed. I do think now you might up the anty and next occurrence allow police to enforce the trespassing order. It's the next step if this didn't clue her in that you mean business. On the idea of AA, as others said it isn't for everyone. Counselling is going to offer you that person to unload on and help work with you to set boundaries as new things occur. That is good. A sort of comparison re: real life support groups. I'm desperate for therapy to help resurrected sexual abuse history and help me cope through a very ugly sickening trial process. Funds aren't there. Self pay means no wedding for me as its one or the other id bills too are to be paid. That rat funk will NOT rob me of my wedding. Group support is the only free resource available to me. Everyone pushes and pushes me to go. I know it helps many. It helped me back as a teen and early 20's whe I dealt with all this first time around. Eventually I facilitated a group on Toronto myself so I know many benefit. This pint in my life it is not what I want and not what I need. My reasons are valid and varied and people don't hear me and insist that barring private therapy i must go to his group. Not fing to happen. My reasons are valid. So I have no local help coupon for now. It hurts but I'm not givin up finding a solution. Nor will I go to the group hat oat a right fit for me. Often I come here with my thoughts and seek support. Other times I struggle greatly alone. Still that doesn't make this particular group the right place for me. It is no reflection of my need and desire for help. If something is wrong for you it is wrong for you. You keep trying new avenues to find resources. I hope a good counsellor turns up for you and it gives you that needed real life support. Not sure what to add but again, u think you are handling this remarkably well. Give credit when it's due you. You're doing good. [/QUOTE]
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