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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 389159" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>((((((((((hugs and prayers))))))))))</p><p> </p><p>It should be criminal for a parent to do that to the other parent of their child. Wouldn't you think if you loved your child you would want them to have as many people who love them in their life as possible? It is just so WRONG for the mother of his kids to do this to THEM. Not just the kids, to ALL of them.</p><p> </p><p>Sadly, by limiting the amount of love that the children receive, the mother is limiting the amount of love they have to give to HER. </p><p> </p><p>We went through this with a cousin of mine. Her mother and our gma HATED each other. The only person who was really hurt by their hate was my cousin. </p><p> </p><p>I am glad that difficult child has made such a good choice for her partner. Babies can come later, it isn't something she should worry about now. Regardless of what he had done. I have a a cousin who almost divorced his wife because three years after he had a vasectomy she got pregnant. Boy did he eat a LOT of humble pie after the DNA test his wife demanded showed that it was his baby. So it doesn't mean that the two of them will not ever have a child together. It will likely take a HUGE amount of trust on his part to have a child with another woman. The mother of his first children has done all she could to use them as weapons to hurt him and he is going to have to deal with the issues that causes before he should have another child. </p><p> </p><p>Sending many prayers that the judge can see that what this woman is doing with her children is very damaging to those children - in my opinion it is abuse of the nature and degree that should result in complete loss of custody and only supervised visitation - NOT supervised by a member of her family. She is teaching these kids that their father is in some way bad, which will mean, to them, that they are at least half bad. It would shock me if the kids didn't already feel unsure of her love on some level. If she can become that vicious to someone she loved, what is to keep her from turning on her children?? In the kids' hearts and minds there is a fear of this already. She should be horsewhipped.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 389159, member: 1233"] ((((((((((hugs and prayers)))))))))) It should be criminal for a parent to do that to the other parent of their child. Wouldn't you think if you loved your child you would want them to have as many people who love them in their life as possible? It is just so WRONG for the mother of his kids to do this to THEM. Not just the kids, to ALL of them. Sadly, by limiting the amount of love that the children receive, the mother is limiting the amount of love they have to give to HER. We went through this with a cousin of mine. Her mother and our gma HATED each other. The only person who was really hurt by their hate was my cousin. I am glad that difficult child has made such a good choice for her partner. Babies can come later, it isn't something she should worry about now. Regardless of what he had done. I have a a cousin who almost divorced his wife because three years after he had a vasectomy she got pregnant. Boy did he eat a LOT of humble pie after the DNA test his wife demanded showed that it was his baby. So it doesn't mean that the two of them will not ever have a child together. It will likely take a HUGE amount of trust on his part to have a child with another woman. The mother of his first children has done all she could to use them as weapons to hurt him and he is going to have to deal with the issues that causes before he should have another child. Sending many prayers that the judge can see that what this woman is doing with her children is very damaging to those children - in my opinion it is abuse of the nature and degree that should result in complete loss of custody and only supervised visitation - NOT supervised by a member of her family. She is teaching these kids that their father is in some way bad, which will mean, to them, that they are at least half bad. It would shock me if the kids didn't already feel unsure of her love on some level. If she can become that vicious to someone she loved, what is to keep her from turning on her children?? In the kids' hearts and minds there is a fear of this already. She should be horsewhipped. [/QUOTE]
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