rejectedmom
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Well she wrote me again told me that she and difficult child were in the new mess together as I suspected. It seems she had him remove metal heaters from her apt and sell them for scrap so she could buy cigarettes. Said she didn't know it would creat such a fuss.
I darn near laughed out loud at that one. I wrote her back and said "you vandalized someone else's property and sold their possessions for ciggeretts and you didn't think it was a big deal? You are lucky to only be charged with a misdemenor." I told her that I knew all about the charges against difficult child because it was a matter of public record and easy to look up. I also told her she was crazy (not those exact words though) to think that difficult child was able to take care of things when he spent 4 years in prison on a 12 month ticket because he could not complete an early release program. OH my gosh I sounded like Judge Judy just laying it all out there!
Sadly difficult child is charged with 4 or 5 misdemenor counts for this escapade. She only got one. And she was the mastermind behind it. difficult child is so freaking stupid. I honestly think he is taking the brunt of it because she claims to have been carrying his baby. She said "was" so I am unclear if the pregnancy is still viable.
I told her if she was pg with difficult child's child she was carrying a baby that would need lots of help. Laid out all the hoary details of the syndrome and the inevitable surgeries and interventions. I told her it would be overwhelming and she would need help. I asked her to please get to a doctor tell them about the syndrome. I gave her the exact mane of it. I told her to ask whatever doctor she saw for a referral to a geneticist so that maybe tests would be done and the baby would be followed. Just an effort to insure the baby would get the care he needed. I hope I scared the bejebers out of her but I honestly doubt it. I probably just ticked her off. She is a difficult child afterall. I doubt she will write to me again after this last...but I at least said what needed to be said. She cannot claim ignorance of the facts. I have that documented now. -RM
I darn near laughed out loud at that one. I wrote her back and said "you vandalized someone else's property and sold their possessions for ciggeretts and you didn't think it was a big deal? You are lucky to only be charged with a misdemenor." I told her that I knew all about the charges against difficult child because it was a matter of public record and easy to look up. I also told her she was crazy (not those exact words though) to think that difficult child was able to take care of things when he spent 4 years in prison on a 12 month ticket because he could not complete an early release program. OH my gosh I sounded like Judge Judy just laying it all out there!
Sadly difficult child is charged with 4 or 5 misdemenor counts for this escapade. She only got one. And she was the mastermind behind it. difficult child is so freaking stupid. I honestly think he is taking the brunt of it because she claims to have been carrying his baby. She said "was" so I am unclear if the pregnancy is still viable.
I told her if she was pg with difficult child's child she was carrying a baby that would need lots of help. Laid out all the hoary details of the syndrome and the inevitable surgeries and interventions. I told her it would be overwhelming and she would need help. I asked her to please get to a doctor tell them about the syndrome. I gave her the exact mane of it. I told her to ask whatever doctor she saw for a referral to a geneticist so that maybe tests would be done and the baby would be followed. Just an effort to insure the baby would get the care he needed. I hope I scared the bejebers out of her but I honestly doubt it. I probably just ticked her off. She is a difficult child afterall. I doubt she will write to me again after this last...but I at least said what needed to be said. She cannot claim ignorance of the facts. I have that documented now. -RM