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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 166163" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Judi, </p><p></p><p>I am a notorious pack rat. I'm probably border line hoarder in the paper file aspect of keeping things that EVERYONE will tell you, me and the whole world YOU can throw those out. Like my taxes from when I first got married over 21 years ago? I still have them. And the CPA said "You wont need those after 5 -7 years." When I tried to get a $40k tax bill put on my x? I NEEDED those papers and by some miracle (packratus a meeus) had them ON hand. Of course they were filed in the "a-hole" box with all my other memories of x. </p><p></p><p>And the entire family knows what to get if I say I need the Ahole box. I kept every receipt, every utility bill, every school record, because if I EVER had to prove in court in 18 years that I DID, ALL ON MY OWN, provide for my son and x did zero - THERE was my proof. </p><p></p><p>When he turns 18 - I will have a truck back up here and shred the stuff to bits. Until then - the boxes are not even allowed IN the house for fear of horrible, bad karma. THey stay out in a shed locked. </p><p></p><p>YOu could do the same - I dont' "go through" them - to stir up any emotions but when I need them to prove a point? I have them. Dude will be 18 in August and I can't WAIT to shred them. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 166163, member: 4964"] Judi, I am a notorious pack rat. I'm probably border line hoarder in the paper file aspect of keeping things that EVERYONE will tell you, me and the whole world YOU can throw those out. Like my taxes from when I first got married over 21 years ago? I still have them. And the CPA said "You wont need those after 5 -7 years." When I tried to get a $40k tax bill put on my x? I NEEDED those papers and by some miracle (packratus a meeus) had them ON hand. Of course they were filed in the "a-hole" box with all my other memories of x. And the entire family knows what to get if I say I need the Ahole box. I kept every receipt, every utility bill, every school record, because if I EVER had to prove in court in 18 years that I DID, ALL ON MY OWN, provide for my son and x did zero - THERE was my proof. When he turns 18 - I will have a truck back up here and shred the stuff to bits. Until then - the boxes are not even allowed IN the house for fear of horrible, bad karma. THey stay out in a shed locked. YOu could do the same - I dont' "go through" them - to stir up any emotions but when I need them to prove a point? I have them. Dude will be 18 in August and I can't WAIT to shred them. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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