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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 102345" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>JO</p><p></p><p>I have been there - twice in my lifetime. Could HR at TSI will give her a 'leave' of absence for say 2 weeks? My thought is to have her transferred to a store OR stay home and give this joker time to realize she's "been let go" the manager that knows what is going on could say something when joker boy comes in like - "Too bad BETTY doesn't work here anymore - her friends are here again today." </p><p></p><p>My other thought would be to call the police station and ask to speak to a victims advocate for advice. NOT an officer on duty in that jurisdiction. </p><p></p><p>Make sure that the manager is documenting ALL of this in writing, time, dates, number of friends. Even surveillance if they have it - ask them NOT to erase the tapes, get copies. </p><p></p><p>I absolutely would tell your daughter to go to some self defense classes, carry a quick shot pepper spray or miniature air horn on her key chain. When she walks to her car tell her to lace the keys between her fingers (like wolverine) and to ALWAYS ALWAYS be on guard and expect to be jumped every time she is walking to her car. Also get her in the habit of looking in the back seat and under the car - if there is a van parked to the LEFT of her drivers side - explain she needs to get in on the passenger side of her car. NEVER EVER let her be alone while this is going on. It may be (i am not kidding here either) worth your peace of mind to hire her a body guard. </p><p></p><p>I had to shoot at my first stalker - I literally parted his hair with a .357. He was very perverted. The second one still keeps me on my toes today - I never know when he's going to show up - but I stay in a perpetual state of readiness. </p><p></p><p>The same could save your daughters life. </p><p></p><p>Make sure SOMEONE is taking his progressive picture and pictures of his friends too - Have the manager of TSI - point and shoot a digital camera at him so you can have a visual record should anything ever happen.</p><p></p><p>I am really sorry you have to endure this - it really stinks. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 102345, member: 4964"] JO I have been there - twice in my lifetime. Could HR at TSI will give her a 'leave' of absence for say 2 weeks? My thought is to have her transferred to a store OR stay home and give this joker time to realize she's "been let go" the manager that knows what is going on could say something when joker boy comes in like - "Too bad BETTY doesn't work here anymore - her friends are here again today." My other thought would be to call the police station and ask to speak to a victims advocate for advice. NOT an officer on duty in that jurisdiction. Make sure that the manager is documenting ALL of this in writing, time, dates, number of friends. Even surveillance if they have it - ask them NOT to erase the tapes, get copies. I absolutely would tell your daughter to go to some self defense classes, carry a quick shot pepper spray or miniature air horn on her key chain. When she walks to her car tell her to lace the keys between her fingers (like wolverine) and to ALWAYS ALWAYS be on guard and expect to be jumped every time she is walking to her car. Also get her in the habit of looking in the back seat and under the car - if there is a van parked to the LEFT of her drivers side - explain she needs to get in on the passenger side of her car. NEVER EVER let her be alone while this is going on. It may be (i am not kidding here either) worth your peace of mind to hire her a body guard. I had to shoot at my first stalker - I literally parted his hair with a .357. He was very perverted. The second one still keeps me on my toes today - I never know when he's going to show up - but I stay in a perpetual state of readiness. The same could save your daughters life. Make sure SOMEONE is taking his progressive picture and pictures of his friends too - Have the manager of TSI - point and shoot a digital camera at him so you can have a visual record should anything ever happen. I am really sorry you have to endure this - it really stinks. Star [/QUOTE]
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