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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 102381" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Karen, he likd her a long time ago. She made the grave mistake of giving him the time of day (not literally-lol) and they exchanged a couple of emails - this was over a year and a half ago. Eventually, that petered out and they lost touch. </p><p></p><p>Then, about 6 months later in late Sept/early Oct 2006 he showed up at a cafe she goes to listen to local amateur singers. He was waiting outside. She said hi but I was waiting so difficult child got into the car and we left.</p><p></p><p>Apparently, at that point, he began calling her cell non-stop. I also noticed on her myspace (at that time) that he was leaving her strange messages about being his girlfriend, getting married, leaving her family and moving far away with him where they could have babies. </p><p></p><p>His myspace listed him as having a girlfriend, which he did, but it wasn't my difficult child. All the while, difficult child claims she was trying to dissuade him from calling her and telling him she wasn't interested. Then, the girlfriend broke up with him because she found out he was calling difficult child and then the stalker cut and paste pics of difficult child from her myspace and made a collage which he turned into his background on his myspace page. He told everyone they were engaged and even posted it in his blog. Then he called difficult child and threatened to have some bad@$$ kid he knows beat up her old boyfriend if she didn't go out with him. She was so afraid that he would do that so she said okay - but they never hung out or anything. He just wanted to say she was his girl. I had my doubts about the whole thing so I confronted difficult child and that's when she told me all of this.</p><p></p><p>That's when I also found out that he told her he "was always watching her". difficult child was petrified to be alone anywhere and I always had to get to her work early to pick her up or she'd have a panic attack. Three people she worked with saw him drive by her work really slow in someone's truck. And one night I was late picking her up and she was standing in the shadows of the doorway and as soon as she got into the car she burst into tears. </p><p></p><p>By then it was late December 2006 and I contacted him via cell and told him to stop calling our house and stop contacting difficult child. I made her delete her myspace page, which she gladly did. </p><p></p><p>Then in late January he was calling her again and then I found out he had called our house and told difficult child that he just passed by and could see inside. That is when I filed a report against him and he was told to stay away from our house and not to call here either. He did it again. </p><p></p><p>The police paid him a visit and then he stopped it all, dropped out of sight until this past July when difficult child saw him near that cafe. He told her he just got out of jail and that I was the one who put him there. I didn't - he was put in jail for theft. </p><p></p><p>So, on difficult child's 18th birthday this past Oct, while she was living with her dad, he called her and said, "difficult child, you're 18 now. Your mom can't stop me from calling you anymore. We can be together. I still love you and want you." difficult child said she didn't live in CT anymore and that he should not call her. by the way, we had difficult child's cell number changed so he got it somewhere - AIM likely. Anyway, he kept calling her and finally her dad answerd the phone and threatened to come up to CT and break his legs if he didn't leave difficult child alone. Again, he dropped out of sight. </p><p></p><p>Then difficult child moved back home and got this job and we think that someone who knows difficult child and stalker told him and that's when he started up again. And now I think it's less because he's trying to win her over with his "wit and charm" and more about intimidating her and scaring her. </p><p></p><p>So, Karen, that is a condensed version of the story. Aren't you glad you asked??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 102381, member: 2211"] Karen, he likd her a long time ago. She made the grave mistake of giving him the time of day (not literally-lol) and they exchanged a couple of emails - this was over a year and a half ago. Eventually, that petered out and they lost touch. Then, about 6 months later in late Sept/early Oct 2006 he showed up at a cafe she goes to listen to local amateur singers. He was waiting outside. She said hi but I was waiting so difficult child got into the car and we left. Apparently, at that point, he began calling her cell non-stop. I also noticed on her myspace (at that time) that he was leaving her strange messages about being his girlfriend, getting married, leaving her family and moving far away with him where they could have babies. His myspace listed him as having a girlfriend, which he did, but it wasn't my difficult child. All the while, difficult child claims she was trying to dissuade him from calling her and telling him she wasn't interested. Then, the girlfriend broke up with him because she found out he was calling difficult child and then the stalker cut and paste pics of difficult child from her myspace and made a collage which he turned into his background on his myspace page. He told everyone they were engaged and even posted it in his blog. Then he called difficult child and threatened to have some bad@$$ kid he knows beat up her old boyfriend if she didn't go out with him. She was so afraid that he would do that so she said okay - but they never hung out or anything. He just wanted to say she was his girl. I had my doubts about the whole thing so I confronted difficult child and that's when she told me all of this. That's when I also found out that he told her he "was always watching her". difficult child was petrified to be alone anywhere and I always had to get to her work early to pick her up or she'd have a panic attack. Three people she worked with saw him drive by her work really slow in someone's truck. And one night I was late picking her up and she was standing in the shadows of the doorway and as soon as she got into the car she burst into tears. By then it was late December 2006 and I contacted him via cell and told him to stop calling our house and stop contacting difficult child. I made her delete her myspace page, which she gladly did. Then in late January he was calling her again and then I found out he had called our house and told difficult child that he just passed by and could see inside. That is when I filed a report against him and he was told to stay away from our house and not to call here either. He did it again. The police paid him a visit and then he stopped it all, dropped out of sight until this past July when difficult child saw him near that cafe. He told her he just got out of jail and that I was the one who put him there. I didn't - he was put in jail for theft. So, on difficult child's 18th birthday this past Oct, while she was living with her dad, he called her and said, "difficult child, you're 18 now. Your mom can't stop me from calling you anymore. We can be together. I still love you and want you." difficult child said she didn't live in CT anymore and that he should not call her. by the way, we had difficult child's cell number changed so he got it somewhere - AIM likely. Anyway, he kept calling her and finally her dad answerd the phone and threatened to come up to CT and break his legs if he didn't leave difficult child alone. Again, he dropped out of sight. Then difficult child moved back home and got this job and we think that someone who knows difficult child and stalker told him and that's when he started up again. And now I think it's less because he's trying to win her over with his "wit and charm" and more about intimidating her and scaring her. So, Karen, that is a condensed version of the story. Aren't you glad you asked?? [/QUOTE]
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