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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 103284" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Thanks Star - I called them and this is what they said:</p><p></p><p>*Always be aware of her surroundings and make note if he's there and write it down (date, place, & time).</p><p></p><p>*Let all of his calls go directly to voice mail so there is a record (also write it down as above).</p><p></p><p>*Change her cell and only let her give it out to certain people.</p><p></p><p>*Always park under a light, always try to travel or go out with a friend who know what's going on, what he looks like, as a witness.</p><p></p><p>*Work in a less public place and alter where you hang out. </p><p></p><p>Ultimately, keep track of everything.</p><p></p><p>The woman I spoke with also said that unless he physically harms or threatens her, there is little the police can do. She said that without those circumstances we may not even be able to get a restraining order against him. We can try and try again, but it could be denied until he tries something other than following her or being in places where she is. That is considered stalking and if we document it it may be enough to get a restraining order against him. However, she also said - that some judges are easier than others and some are more difficult. It all depends on who we get and how convincing difficult child is in her statement.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 103284, member: 2211"] Thanks Star - I called them and this is what they said: *Always be aware of her surroundings and make note if he's there and write it down (date, place, & time). *Let all of his calls go directly to voice mail so there is a record (also write it down as above). *Change her cell and only let her give it out to certain people. *Always park under a light, always try to travel or go out with a friend who know what's going on, what he looks like, as a witness. *Work in a less public place and alter where you hang out. Ultimately, keep track of everything. The woman I spoke with also said that unless he physically harms or threatens her, there is little the police can do. She said that without those circumstances we may not even be able to get a restraining order against him. We can try and try again, but it could be denied until he tries something other than following her or being in places where she is. That is considered stalking and if we document it it may be enough to get a restraining order against him. However, she also said - that some judges are easier than others and some are more difficult. It all depends on who we get and how convincing difficult child is in her statement. [/QUOTE]
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