I am new in the process of getting help from the government - and I need some help. I think my difficult child qualifies for disability - right? Where do I start the process of getting that? Also, what else would he or I be eligible for that you guys know of? I am in the process of throwing my X in jail for owing me almost 100K in past child support (he has never paid a dime - and it's been 12 years). And now I also need health ins. - which I guess is medicaide? Any advice would he helpful - I feel lost and overwhelmed with this for some reason.