strongmanslady
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I posted a while back about my 12 yr. old son's behavior. It seemed to have started "overnight". He was throwing tantrums, screaming, yelling, breaking things, etc. He just overall became an angry, not happy boy. It has carried on into school. At least once a week he is getting detention. He just came off of 3 days in school suspension this week (Monday) and now today, I get a call from the principal about ANOTHER incident. My son seems to think he doesn't need to listen to not only his parents, but now his teachers. He will not stop talking when asked, he will not sit in his seat when told to sit down, he talks back to them, etc. Today he called a teacher a "fag". I am so depressed and upset right now. He started therapy last week; he has only had 2 sessions so far. I don't know what to do. I think he needs to have a neurological evaluation and he's therapist did mention this but again, she has only seen him twice so far. I am so sick of the roller coaster of taking away his Xbox, Ipod, laptop, etc. when he acts out, then returning them when he seems better, then taking them away again when he acts out again, returning them, etc, etc. What am I doing wrong??? Should I take everything away AGAIN??? His therapist is not in today and does not take emails. My son is sarcastic, rude, and just overall thinks he can do, say, and act the way HE wants to. I cannot get over the constant changes in his mood and behavior. There is no happiness in our home; we feel like we are walking on egg shells waiting for the next eruption. He does not want to go ANYWHERE with us - i.e. movies, mall, visit relatives, etc.