My difficult child is not talking to me or rather I'm not talking to him. It all started when I tried to get my Christmas decorations from the house. He got mad because I asked him to get them from the attic and place them in the garage so I could pick them up. He was "busy"---even though he doesn't have a job and does nothing all day long. He then said that his dad gets mad if he lets me have anything out of the house. He said some really horrible things to me. Since then I found out that my Wii is missing from the house---I should have gotten it sooner---but I just got a tv and now I can use it---but it's gone. So we had an argument about that. He again said some horrible things to me and about me to his dad. He told me he didn't have a mom anymore. So, I haven't spoken to him since before Christmas. It is actually a relief because even though he has text me a couple of time wanting money, and a few nice text telling me he loves and misses me. I haven't had to listen to him complain about how horrible his life is===i love him but he just hoovers the life out of me and it's nice to have a break. Which of course makes me feel really quilty.