I noticed at my oldest that he is very arrogant and condescending towards me and his mother. I also noticed that me and my wife are the same towards our parents but not towards each others parents in law. I noticed that many many of us are towards out parents and at least in my experience I can say my parents where good parents and from what my wife told me and found out so were hers but yet we do not show them respect. My oldest is the same and I wonder why it really hurts me when he has that attitude. He is a successful independent person yet he shows us so much disrespect and so do I towards my parents and my wife is the same towards hers. And I never saw people who did not have such a bad attitude towards their parents so my question is why do we have such a culture that disrespect became mainstream?