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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 440677" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I am going to agree with Malika here with the comments. I always gave Matt's comments too much leverage I believe, and all of his comments freaked me out. Yet, they never amounted to anything. So, I am not sure what to say other than we know they are not normal, and yet there are no answers on how to handle things like that.</p><p></p><p>On the flip side, it is possible that he was sexually abused by this place. Same thing happened to Matt at that age, he came home talking about the sitter spanking him. I pulled him out of the place, and the sitter adamantly denied that anything had happened. Two months ago, age 20, Matt spilled to me that he remembers being sexually abused. He could not remember any of the details except the feelings, and some objects in the house. He has had some lifetime repercussions from it - and in this conversation he revealed to me some of the torment he has gone through with himself and sexuality. It was so sad. I could never place why he acted or did certain things until he told me this a couple of months ago - now it makes sense.</p><p></p><p> Your son doing that with the doll is not normal, and indicates some sort of sexual impropriety happened. He is acting out the action and trying to resolve what happened to him by using play. I would get him into play therapy with this issue as the main focus.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 440677, member: 3301"] I am going to agree with Malika here with the comments. I always gave Matt's comments too much leverage I believe, and all of his comments freaked me out. Yet, they never amounted to anything. So, I am not sure what to say other than we know they are not normal, and yet there are no answers on how to handle things like that. On the flip side, it is possible that he was sexually abused by this place. Same thing happened to Matt at that age, he came home talking about the sitter spanking him. I pulled him out of the place, and the sitter adamantly denied that anything had happened. Two months ago, age 20, Matt spilled to me that he remembers being sexually abused. He could not remember any of the details except the feelings, and some objects in the house. He has had some lifetime repercussions from it - and in this conversation he revealed to me some of the torment he has gone through with himself and sexuality. It was so sad. I could never place why he acted or did certain things until he told me this a couple of months ago - now it makes sense. Your son doing that with the doll is not normal, and indicates some sort of sexual impropriety happened. He is acting out the action and trying to resolve what happened to him by using play. I would get him into play therapy with this issue as the main focus. [/QUOTE]
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