"Mom, I know what J is getting me for Christmas!" "What?" "A ring!" That is the speechless part. Then when she saw the look on my face (they have only known each other for about a month) she pulled the hook out with, "Not THAT kind of ring". I am soooooo relieved! He just bought her a necklace that matches her tattoo (heart with a crown on it) and it was his idea to take her to Starbucks, her all time favorite place ("Because he listens"). She turned down some of the choices in jewelry he was going to give her because they didn't go with everything (pink items on the jewelry) so she wouldn't be able to wear it everyday.