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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 555320" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I don't think we mom's ever truly stop hoping. LOL I try to convince myself that I have.........but, yeah. </p><p></p><p>I am beginning to wonder if she has only replied to my letter simply because she acted to Nichole like I'm still her mother figure......I was so disappointed in her.....yadda yadda. I mean, Nichole is her sister, but I am Nichole's biomom and she knows how close we are so she couldn't really dog me to her or anything. I'm wondering because for all her "I want to resolve this" junk, she sure is in no hurry to do so. The last response took more than a month, and Nichole had to send her both envelopes AND stamps. Now I know the income going into that household, there is no reason whatsoever Katie can't well afford both. It's been more than a month, and still no response. </p><p></p><p>I didn't take the bait of her Borderline (BPD) behavior, but I was careful with how I worded things even while being honest. I type the letters so I can keep copies. (I'm not stupid, I've learned) </p><p></p><p>But part of me wonders if she figured out I went to the police over the fb photo that was obvious Kayla and Alex had to see. That wouldn't be so hard to deduce if she did, shoot, I'd tell her straight out if she asked........and I'd again tell her why I did it. I have no idea what the repercussions of that might have been legally or with M or both. Nor do I really care. </p><p></p><p>I'm going to send off the kids cards tomorrow with the invitation to the halloween party. I'd like them to come. Everyone else would like them to come. But it will be what it will be. At least they'll know Nana still thought of them and invited them. </p><p></p><p>I might not even get a letter back from her this time. Still.........kids will get cards for holidays and I'll have Nichole drop off their xmas presents for them. Katie will just have to deal with it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 555320, member: 84"] I don't think we mom's ever truly stop hoping. LOL I try to convince myself that I have.........but, yeah. I am beginning to wonder if she has only replied to my letter simply because she acted to Nichole like I'm still her mother figure......I was so disappointed in her.....yadda yadda. I mean, Nichole is her sister, but I am Nichole's biomom and she knows how close we are so she couldn't really dog me to her or anything. I'm wondering because for all her "I want to resolve this" junk, she sure is in no hurry to do so. The last response took more than a month, and Nichole had to send her both envelopes AND stamps. Now I know the income going into that household, there is no reason whatsoever Katie can't well afford both. It's been more than a month, and still no response. I didn't take the bait of her Borderline (BPD) behavior, but I was careful with how I worded things even while being honest. I type the letters so I can keep copies. (I'm not stupid, I've learned) But part of me wonders if she figured out I went to the police over the fb photo that was obvious Kayla and Alex had to see. That wouldn't be so hard to deduce if she did, shoot, I'd tell her straight out if she asked........and I'd again tell her why I did it. I have no idea what the repercussions of that might have been legally or with M or both. Nor do I really care. I'm going to send off the kids cards tomorrow with the invitation to the halloween party. I'd like them to come. Everyone else would like them to come. But it will be what it will be. At least they'll know Nana still thought of them and invited them. I might not even get a letter back from her this time. Still.........kids will get cards for holidays and I'll have Nichole drop off their xmas presents for them. Katie will just have to deal with it. [/QUOTE]
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