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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 121624" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>how old is your child? I would say you have listed two very good points....</p><p></p><p> he has been violent to her in the past (bruise marks to me constitues unnecessary violence)</p><p></p><p> she doens't want to go</p><p></p><p></p><p>My ex husband is not at all supportive with what our daugther goes through, is in denial and has issues himself is afraid it'll get blamed on his genes i guess. yet there has never been any violence he lost it once and yelled at her when she wet the bed few mos. back and well me being the pyscho that i am i threatened him to stop overnights if i heard he was screaming at her one more time iwas pulling them.</p><p></p><p></p><p>i think you already know what the right thing is to do. it doesn't mean they wont know one another it can just be a shorter amt of time, no overnights maybe afternoon visit few hours. just because their the bio parent doens't mean they should know the kid. </p><p></p><p>my oldest is not from my marriage, i had her when i was 23 on my own. when i saw the bio dad's reaction which by the way was a friend of mine for quite sometime we just well one night and poof.....anyway when i saw his reaction to the pregnancy his lack of concern, responsiblity i took him to court after she was born i took his legal rights to her away. he didn't want to know her anyway yet she's better off without him in her life. he would of hurt her mentally very very badly.</p><p></p><p>anyway hard hard decisions to make yet with this one just look at your child and weigh the pro's and con's from her point of view or rather her benefit. you'l do the right thing.</p><p></p><p></p><p>lots of luck</p><p>Jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 121624, member: 4514"] hi, how old is your child? I would say you have listed two very good points.... he has been violent to her in the past (bruise marks to me constitues unnecessary violence) she doens't want to go My ex husband is not at all supportive with what our daugther goes through, is in denial and has issues himself is afraid it'll get blamed on his genes i guess. yet there has never been any violence he lost it once and yelled at her when she wet the bed few mos. back and well me being the pyscho that i am i threatened him to stop overnights if i heard he was screaming at her one more time iwas pulling them. i think you already know what the right thing is to do. it doesn't mean they wont know one another it can just be a shorter amt of time, no overnights maybe afternoon visit few hours. just because their the bio parent doens't mean they should know the kid. my oldest is not from my marriage, i had her when i was 23 on my own. when i saw the bio dad's reaction which by the way was a friend of mine for quite sometime we just well one night and poof.....anyway when i saw his reaction to the pregnancy his lack of concern, responsiblity i took him to court after she was born i took his legal rights to her away. he didn't want to know her anyway yet she's better off without him in her life. he would of hurt her mentally very very badly. anyway hard hard decisions to make yet with this one just look at your child and weigh the pro's and con's from her point of view or rather her benefit. you'l do the right thing. lots of luck Jen [/QUOTE]
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