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Do we fall out of love with our children?
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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 125388" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>I dont think we fall out of love with them. For me it is fear. I feel like I have given so much and to get just the same that I dont know what else to do but to let go more than I have. When you let go(and it is easier since my son is in jail) you go on with your life and it relieves you of their life which is what you have been living. You dont want to go back there to that life. I believe that is the part you feel like you dont love - it is not that you dont love your son but you dont love that part. Everytime I think about my son coming home - and I used to want him to so much - it almost makes me sick. I feel a fear that I cant describe and dont want to go back to that horror anymore. It is like ahorror movie that you have been in over and over and finally you say no more.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 125388, member: 3948"] I dont think we fall out of love with them. For me it is fear. I feel like I have given so much and to get just the same that I dont know what else to do but to let go more than I have. When you let go(and it is easier since my son is in jail) you go on with your life and it relieves you of their life which is what you have been living. You dont want to go back there to that life. I believe that is the part you feel like you dont love - it is not that you dont love your son but you dont love that part. Everytime I think about my son coming home - and I used to want him to so much - it almost makes me sick. I feel a fear that I cant describe and dont want to go back to that horror anymore. It is like ahorror movie that you have been in over and over and finally you say no more. [/QUOTE]
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